Hi, I have been going to a Psychiatrist for about 6 appointments now.
The first appointment was a general mental assessment and to tell him why I wanted to take HRT and transition. In my anxious state I rattled off all these things to which he replied HRT does none of that, you have no idea what you talking about . He said that he thinks my feeling's are all caused by my anxiety and I can help you through that and that transitioning is a long lonely road and I can't ever see you doing it.
I was thinking that maybe he was kind of right. I didn't like his attitude or the way he spoke but, now am thinking he did that to test me.
On the second visit he put me on anti anxiety tabs (Deralin 40) . He said that he had rung my Doctor and my Doctor had said to him ( the psych) that he had no idea why I had been referred to him and that he was just a sexual health Doctor.
I was feeling a bit confused then I made the big mistake of saying that I didn't think I needed to take HRT now and explained that I just wanted to reduce the masculinity instead. I knew this wasn't true and don't know why I said that, maybe because I was apprehensive about coming out and transitioning.
I told my Doctor what I did and he said that didn't matter as there was no right nor wrong answers and that is why you are seeing him to work things through. He said the Psych must have got mixed up with the phone call. One of my other friends has all her hormone work done through this Doctor, so I can trust he is telling the truth. He also said that if you don't feel that this Psych is getting you anywhere or his attitude is hampering things that I can refer you to another one.
Ever since I have been on the anti anxiety ( about 5 weeks) my feelings of wanting to transition into a female role and take HRT have become as strong as they have ever been. Except for the tiredness being the only real side effect, they have been good. I know it can take more then just medications and that a lot of it is talking face to face.
So now I go back to the Psych on Tuesday and I am going to tell him that I want to take HRT and transition now. I can just imagine what his response will be. Most likely 'You can't do that' or 'You said this, now your saying that'. I know it affects my creditability and will make it harder to present my reasons of why I want to but, I know I can really do this now. If he doesn't want to help , I have the option of seeing another Psych, I thought of this before as I haven't really liked this Psych's attitude or somewhat arrogance since the initial start.
So has anyone else said this before I'm sure they have, I'm just wondering what the outcome usually is or anything that someone can suggest I do to make it better. I talked to my my friend about it and she said that he may be not taking me seriously and possibly trying to gate keep me?
I know I should have stayed with what I wanted from the start but, I guess that is some of the apprehensiveness coming out?
Beni.