Making love to the wife

[Christy Edwards]

I understand where u are at. I look at my wife and say wow and think how much I desire her.
She also has a tuff time with feeling not good enough. The thing is she is more than good enough.I too have to realize there's lots of ways of making love and being close....

[CaitJ]

if there is desire to penetrate with the penis it means the penis owner is male and has no need to transition and should remain as a closeted CD/TV?

Golly, a decent percentage of cis lesbians are boys? I never knew!

[CaitJ]

Where I think Lilac may have a slight point, even if her choice of phrasing was perhaps not terribly helpful, is that an inevitable consequence of HRT is loss of male sexual function

I was still functioning right up until the night before I was admitted for SRS. HRT = no penis function is a myth.

[GinaDouglas]

I have been on HRT for a couple years, and my stuff works fine.  In fact, it works better than before, in that it only works when I want it to.

On another note, is anybody else sensing that maybe part of the problem is the attitude revealed in the topic's title?  "The wife"?!?