Feminine hands.

[emil]

i've had people tell me that i had the tiniest hands they've ever seen on a guy my age but it never affected my passing,,,,,,and on a side note, one of the people who said that had previously known me for over a year and never noticed my hands before.



(p.s. if you really feel like you need "manlier hands" though, that's easy to achieve -- do all the nasty household chores like the dishes and floors...every day, cook your meals from scratch...within a year you'll have hands like my mom...who has the "manliest" hands you've ever seen )
edit: i agree, fixing old cars would be the fastest way

[marissak]

You know, my hands are one of the things, besides my boobs and vagina, that make me the most dysphoric.

I do not have much advice, but I have an observation which might help you.

I have a cousin who is a huge bulky man (genetic male), about 6'2" and hairy. A few years ago, he had a form a cancer for which he underwent chemo. On chemo, he lost a lot of his hair and a little bulk. One thing I noticed when I met him hairless was his hands. His fingers were thin and his hands were tiny. They looked very feminine. I noticed this because I used to be conscious about my own hands because I thought that I had big hands with long fingers for a girl. I did not verbalize my observations and I kept them to myself.

Then I met him about a year after he recovered from cancer mostly (I have heard he has relapsed more recently). His hair was back on his arms, the back of his hands, and his knuckles. Although I am sure that his hands and his fingers were still as small and feminine as before, they did not appear that way. His hands looked masculine with all that hair.