Hi,... This is one of those times that I need an outside perspective.
I'm post-transition, (social; GRS coming up in May) and I've been thinking and wondering about changing my kids' birth certificate to reflect the new name.
Can you think of any reason why I should or should not make the change? I had a recent experience, picking up my son from daycare, that frightened me... The new employee had met my son's Mom but hadn't met me; She almost called the police because she thought, because I told her that he was my son, I was being deceptive. I shudder to think, if anything ever happened to my ex-wife, that I wouldn't be able to take my kids because of the name discrepancy. I have the court order that changed my name but I don't carry it with me.
Any opinions?