If you think you heard people talking about you, but aren't sure -

[Nero]

I've had a few instances lately where I think people are talking about me, but it's very faint. I can barely hear it. Once where it seemed a couple were discussing my beard, another where two guys were wondering if I was queer, and another where a guy told his girl "a real man would've said 'excuse me.' lol

Am I just paranoid about passing or what? And if paranoia about passing weren't enough, now I've got to wonder if I'm passing as 'the right kind of guy'? 

I don't know. It's kind of amusing in a way. 

I'm leaning towards 'if it wasn't clear, it doesn't count'; but wondering what you think.

[MillieB]

I voted that they are talking about you. People always are, trans or not, guys can be bigger bitches than girls and the trick is to genuinely not give a hoot!..........I'm still working on it

[Mrs Erocse]

I posted if you didn't hear it, clearly it doesn't matter.  If you don't know them, If they don't pose a threat to your life or safety, what does it matter? They simply don't count. It is your day, don't let them in.  Unless you think they said they love your hat, or coat or something positive and it makes you feel good.

[Janet_Girl]

I said yeah they are, but you know what who flippin care?  And real men do say "Excuse me", just rude D*ch heads don't.

And yes you are passing as the right kind of guy, your kind.  Any one of us ladies would be proud to be on your arm.

[CaitJ]

If you were cis, would it matter?

[Northern Jane]

Who cares !! ??

Be your own man, your own person, and let the chins wag if they must. Being true to yourself is all that matters.