thank you all for your replies.
justme19-
i know they cause cancer but everyone uses them around here, its hard not to want it, i hate white thighs lol
lordkat-
im out to both of my parents, they both accept me, my dads known since i was around 6th grade atleast but gave me that wait cuz your homrmones will change speech, well when i brought it up again like 9 years later and was like, guess what still here, he took it very well, mom is handling it well also, i feel like she had to know
beth-
my ears are pierced, in fact my mom gave me her moms diamond earrings when she passed, i had never thought about jewelery, thanks! =]
jerica- i know! a boyfriend would be great, my brother isnt as nice as yours haha so i dont need to worry about him getting me anything, hes 15, hes pretty focused on him lol
regan-
i had thought of giftcards, that way i can get the money and buy exactly what i want, i dont her buying me clothes anyways, i need her to have gotten to know me more thoroughly first. and that is a great idea, totally sounds like my mom too, id like her to go to the mall with me.
thank you all for your ideas

-marissa<3