Hey Everybody
This weekend was kind of a rough one for me to swallow.
on Saturday night I went to my friends body paint blacklight party in her co-op which ended up being packed from butt to back with people
and during the night a couple of the guys I went to school with, approached me and gave me a hug and were telling me I was looking good which felt nice because I was feeling pretty good, until they started to talk about how they would "F
me" if I wasn't "Born a Man"
I was pretty Disgusted with them telling me that for multiple reasons, but I just kind of walked away without saying anything because I didn't feel the need to respond.
So later on that night when one of my guy friends were walking down the street to subway before we left, some guys on the corner of the street approached us and said to my friend "Hey Man Your Bitch Looks Good, How Much for Her"
My Jaw kind of dropped for a minute but My friend jokingly said back "You can't afford her buddy" and laughed
and one guy said back "Your Bitch can't do anything I can't afford" and he told me to give him a hug.
I told him he screwed any chance of me touching him the second he called me a hooker
and then after going back and forth with each other for a minute they started laughing and jumping around crossing a busy road pointing and screaming at me that I'm a man................
Like a Freaking Sugar High 12 Year olds.....
Even worse people that were driving past started sticking there heads out of there cars and yelling "That's a Man" at me like I'm an Monster or something.....
I'm no stranger to being called out like that, in fact being that I started transitioning at the beginning of high school, my whole high school journey was built around this kind of harassment, but i think it hit me hard because I was feeling pretty good. I was feeling confident until the situation with the guys from high school before I left, and the second situation was a "hit me while I'm down" kind of moment, and had I not been with my friend I would have had a really bad breakdown in the middle of the street.
I don't care if these people think I'm Dateable, Doable, or if I'm a guy or a girl
but I wanna know if there Mother's taught them to do unto others as they shall do unto you.
Gah Just wanted to let that out cause its been bugging me
Thanks for reading
xoxox