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Started by FlightyBrood, December 20, 2010, 06:40:26 AM

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FlightyBrood

Uhhhh, well, hi? I'm FlightyBrood, obviously, and I'm FtM. YEAH.

So my story isn't that interesting. I grew up a tomboy, and kind of just knew I was a guy (Gay, though, maybe bi?) near puberty. I come from a Pagan family, which is pretty cool I guess. They're very accepting of alternate lifestyles, so I wasn't really afraid to tell them, as they have many gay and transgendered friends.

Of course, it's never that easy, is it? I've always been closest with my mom, she has a really good friend that is MtF and she is a gay rights activist. She was the first one I told. It was easy, and I figured she'd just right on accept it. She didn't say anything for a while, so I moved on and told my dad, who I was surprised started actually introducing me as his son! Just the other day, I overheard him talking to my mother about my Christmas presents. I called "I think you better tell Mom what you got your daughter for Christmas, just so she knows!" Because I haven't fully switched the formalities yet. He called back "I don't have a daughter!" When I said "Son, then!" He just said "She already knows!" That really raised my spirits!

I have an older brother. He is the coolest guy in the world to me, as older brothers often are to younger ones. He was the one I was most afraid of telling. We always have a lot of life talks that are really great, but I didn't ever plan on telling him anything. One day, I was fixing my hair in a mirror, and he said "You're such a girl!" And i instinctually replied "I'm not, i'm a dude!" And he was quiet. I was a bit worried. He asked if I liked girls and when I said no, he said "Oh, I get it! So I have a gay brother then." And everything was cool. I'm super happy that my brother just right out accepted me, though he hasn't switched to calling me his brother yet, he's totally fine.

Back to my mother. I can't even begin to wonder why, but she refuses to accept my gender. She has many gay and transgendered friends and she supports all of them very heavily, but she seriously hurts me sometimes by calling me a girl. I tell her that I'm a male and she points out my breasts, to which I say "But it's wrong" and she says "You're a GIRL." It's incredibly hurtful she's the only one unaccepting of me, but we still have a really good relationship.

I'm afraid to go on T because I'm afraid I'll be a hairy, jiggly mess, but I really would kill for some sideburns. I'm saving up my earnings for a breast reduction someday, because I was unlucky enough to have the PERFECT girl body, giant boobs included. I hate it to no end, and someday wish to see my ribs poke out from my chest. That's my main goal, but I'm not even sure where to start looking for that sort of thing. I hear they're expensive so...

I'm in college for either medical doctoring or Paranormal studies, cause that stuff is AWESOME.

So that's my story so far. Theres a bit more to it, but...for a later time! Anyways, my interests include Cosplay, a little bit of anime, a BUNCH of video games, music, the band LUDO, webcomics (Homestuck, Hanna is Not a Boys Name,The not so epic adventures of TJ and Amal the list goes on...), horror movies, television shows, drawing, talking to new people,.

I'm really nice and love to meet new people, so go ahead and talk to me! I love, i mean LOVE answering questions, and I'm pretty much the most awesome person to ever exist, but there is room for others :3






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dyslexi

Welcome to the forum. Odd how parents become different people when dealing with  non family members, isn't it.
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xAndrewx

Welcome to the site man  :icon_wave:  It's not too uncommon to find parents who are accepting "as long as it's not my kid" type of thing. Your family sounds pretty cool though and you do sound like an awesome guy. I spend probably more time than I should on here so I look forward to reading your posts. See ya around the forum :)

FlightyBrood

Quote from: Michael Alexander on December 20, 2010, 07:50:14 AM
Welcome to the site man  :icon_wave:  It's not too uncommon to find parents who are accepting "as long as it's not my kid" type of thing. Your family sounds pretty cool though and you do sound like an awesome guy. I spend probably more time than I should on here so I look forward to reading your posts. See ya around the forum :)

hah! You just gave me advice! Awesome.






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Janet_Girl

Hi FlightyBrood, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 4500 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:

And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )


Hugs and Love,
Janet
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annette

Hi, welcome to the forum.
Pretty cool how your parents are reacting on your switch.
we don't hear that often so, count your blessings.
looking forward to see your future posts.


hug
annette
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