Well I was talking with the wife, a few days ago and the subject of how "weird" I am came up. I have a terrible time sharing my gender identity issues, but being the new year and all I figured I would attempt to tell her. So I say something to the effect that the way I am (long hair, nail, makeup,etc) isn't nearly enough for me. Her response was something to the effect of "Do you want to be a drag queen?" and I responded that wasn't nearly enough for me to be me.
To this she responded "so you want to be a woman like period and all?" and to this I nodded, but then quickly explained the medical limits that menstruation is not in the cards, and her she said she would give me hers if she could. Then she abruptly said she was going to bed as if this all was no big deal.
She also didn't bring anything about it up over the past few days. I mean, as if nothing had happened. This leaves me a bit confused is she avoiding it, is it no big deal to her, or maybe she just doesn't understand that it is a huge deal to me. I can't help but feel like some failure to communication has occurred, but I am not too certain on exactly on how to rectify the situation.
