I decided to test the waters...told my mom I was doing an experiment of living as a guy for a week. I told her to use male pronouns for that week and to use my male name. Well...she won't do it. She refused. And that was just for a week! What am I to do about wanting her to use them permenately? I would usually say "fine..do what you want" but then I know she would out me in public. And the rest of my family? I know for a fact that they would roll their eyes at me and continue using female pronouns.