Well... masturbating came pretty naturally for me, my first recollection of masturbating was when I was in first grade. I was also always tying up my dolls and stuff, which my parent's really tried to discourage me from doing... ten years later I would be surfing for bondage porn, who'd have thunk. High school, and puberty when increased hormones, but having masturbated for so long I kinda needed to up the ante more than what I could on my own so then there were days where I would just be on the computer for hours finding porn and wanking off.
I find, and this is after talking with a lot of other guys (mostly biologically male), if you're having trouble wanking it's either you do it too much (obviously that's not your problem, but it was mine at the time), or there's a mental, or even emotional, block. The trick to both is finding the thing that turns you on. This is where porn can be very helpful in triggering your fantasy or even helping you find what you like... or something you only like in porn, but not real life (that happens a lot too). When the mind is willing the body follows suit a lot better.
FYI about vibrators, use them on and off, because after a while it numbs the nerves down there.
