Packers and Glue?

[Fuji]

Okay!  So I got a packer about a month ago, a "Mr.Right" silicone piece, and the belt designed specifically for it.  I was thrilled with the quality (great moulding) the material (love to be able to boil it clean) and the strap (the back is leather and feels fine.)

However, it's huge!  (Are there really limpies that big!!??) And I'm constantly adjusting it.  The one day I managed to wear it to work felt great psychologically, but was enourmously stressful. I kept wondering if someone noticed or if I'd get caught adjusting (Luckily we wear aprons!)!  I think the strap is the cause of the movement- it's elastic and pulls it up, I think.

So, I have no experience on this! I had just hopped on some websites and looked for something easy.  But I can't wear this in public!  I don't want it to be conspicuous.  I just don't feel complete without it on.

So, a couple of questions:

-Is there a nice, small, silicone packer that looks like a small, limp penis with testicles? (Someone in another thread suggested the Sailor Soft pack, but it looks as big as the one I've got.  I'm thinking half that shaft size!)
-How can I attach it securely and comfortably? There's a company that makes really realistic ones for thousands of dollars that can be attached with medical-grade glue.  Is that something I can purchase (packie glue?) and is there anyone who can attest to experiences with it?  I've also seen suggestions for creative male underwear, but I like to wear women's underwear, and would rather not have too much fabric happening down there. (But if that's too greedy of me, I'll of course have to compromise!)

Thanks for any help!  I'm really, really new to this!

[Liam K]

I've tried using the Mr. Right packing strap, and honestly I think it sucks.  It makes the packer sit too high on your body, which makes it look really, um, big.  Instead, I usually wear my packer in a jock strap or just against my skin in a pair of briefs.  It sits much more naturally that way, and doesn't look too big at all.  You might want to give this a try with your current packer before investing in a new one; it may not be the size of the packer that's the problem but rather the harness you're wearing it in.

If you do find that it's the packer that's too big (I've never used the Mr. Right, so I don't know how big that one is), I recommend the 3.5 inch soft pack (called the Mini Soft Pack at Babeland or the Small Packy at Early to Bed).  Once I learned how to wear it properly, I've never had any troubles with it creating too big of a bulge.

[Fuji]

Thank you so much! That's very helpful and just the answer I needed.  I'll try wearing it without the strap, and if that doesn't work I'll look into the smaller ones you mentioned. 

Much appreciated!

[Fuji]

Ack!  So I wore the packer right in my briefs today, and it stayed in place fine, but when I took my pants off to use the restroom, it comes off too!  I mean, obviously, but it's a little disturbing!  At least with the strap my penis stayed attached to my body and I didn't have "Surprise! You still have a vagina!" going on.

So I still ask if anyone has experience with prosthetics glue.

In the mean time, I think I might try sewing a pretty harness myself, maybe that wraps around my rear or something and holds it in place when my pants come off. I'm not a great seamstress, but I should be able to figure that out!

Has anyone tried to design and create their own straps?