Hi! Returning member... Returning! :p

[Nilisa]

Hello *waves* Whilst I'm sure I must have introduced myself when I first joined, I felt it only appropriate to reintroduce myself upon return.

I'm 21, from England, and I'm currently in the 'discovery' phase of whether I'm MtF or not. Without going into too much depth, I've spent the past few months acquiring and wearing odd bits of female clothing, and every step I take makes me more certain of being trans, although I still have my doubts and moments of confusion (And what would life be without them?). Overall, trans issues have been a major part of my life for about 5 or 6 years now.

I'm a fairly frequent poster on another forum based around transgender issues, although I feel I might be on the younger side there, so maybe a broader site (Like this) may help me more.

Well, anyway, it's nice to meet you all!

[Janet_Girl]

Hi Nillia,

Welcome back to our little family. Over 5100 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister.

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Hugs and Love,
Janet
   

[Domitia]

Yes, you did introduce yourself when you first came here.

Regardless, welcome back to Susan's, Nilisa.

It isn't unusual for people to question themselves for years and years; just remember to be yourself. Hopefully things start clearing up soon.

[Nilisa]

Thanks for the welcome, both of you.

Domitia; Firstly, your avatar is great! Love it
Secondly, I hope they do, too. I'm doing what I can to try and find answers but it's not always easy or even that simple.

[annette]

Hi Nilisa

welcome.
You're right about the doubts, what would life be without it.
Everybody is and  was dealing with doubts, it's quite a big step to make so you have to think it over properly.
Just take your time honey and you'll find out what's the best option for you.
Maybe a therapist with knowledge of trans issues can help you to make things clear, but at the end of the day you have to take the decision.
In the mean time we can support you.

Hugs from your neighbor across the Nordsea
annette

[Jacquelyn]

Welcome back to Susan's, Nilisa! We are glad to have you back.

I am sure you already know how lovely everyone here is, and how willing to help and educate they are as well.

I look forward to hearing more from you, see you around!

Hugs,
Jacquelyn