Quick, but fun story.

[azSam]

Been sick lately, big whoop, who hasn't? Today was no exception, but tonight I felt a little bit better. One of my girl friends was having a bad night. Bad night at work, boyfriend troubles, other friend troubles, etc; and it sort of stacked up. I decided to rescue her, but I didn't feel like going through the hassle of getting ready to 'go out'.

So I went out in androgynous/boy mode, because really I didn't expect to do much, aside from driving a little bit and maybe hitting a drive through, I just wanted to give her the opportunity to vent about her life.

Well we did go somewhere that involved actually going inside, and we got some food. and I had realized how hard it is to pass as a boy. Not just my appearance, but everything from the way I talk, to the way I walk I found to be difficult.

Everything about what I do and who I am is feminine. Especially after going full-time, I sort of let loose.

My boy mode involves some left-over boy clothes, no makeup, no purse, and really messed up hair cause I'm lazy! I probably looked like a big ole' flamboyant gay guy to some of these people, if they even saw me as a guy.

Just thought someone might enjoy reading this, I forgot how to act like a guy. 

[spacial]

That sounds really nice.

I would think your friend will appreciate the effort. But equally, that you are confortable enough to be yourself with her.

In case she hasn't told you, you're a good friend.