Grats that's a pain in the ..rear worth having.. I'm sorry you're having trouble with your family, hopefully time will be your friend.. As for the land lady yes, it's funny how some people can completely surprise you..
My aunt told me "*female name*, girl, I accept you for the wonderful person I know you are, you'll always be the same to me" leaving me completely confused and trying to explain what FtM means.. Turns out she got it, just had a weird way of expressing that...

I still have a lot of folks especially family though who don't know...
We'll see.. Anyway once again grats!