Was this guy gay? And into me?

[Wild Flower]

(I am presenting as a male, and this guy is a male; he was moderately decent looking too)

There's this guy that I was working with today, and I am trying to figure out if he was "into" me or was just acting weird. Well the first thing that was odd was that he couldn't really speak too well, like a nervous talk. Secondly he whispered under his breath, "oh my god". Thirdly, he laughed a bit but it was like "hehehe..." *smile* when I look at him, and I asked him, "What's so funny?" with a smile, and he replied with nothing like he was nervous. I wasn't acting differently, but I felt just a bit of sexual tension. I said to him, "this isn't too hard", but he acted like the task was difficult. It really wasn't, it was just coming up with questions for a survey. And when there was so much nervousness from him, I was ending my answers with "maybe.. i think", like I wanted him to give his idea on it as well, or I was unsure.... either I am Megan Fox or this guy is weird? Explain. 

Then I asked him what his name was, so I could put it into the header, and he was like, "I'll just type it". Then he was like, "indent, do you know how to do that?". And I was like, "yeah". Then I was typing it, and then he was like, "I'll type it", and I said "sure". I am not sure he was too shy to speak. Then he couldn't even think properly really, and then when he spoke to the guy in front of him (he knows him), he could speak well... He gave off the impression that he either was treating me dumb, or he just couldn't handle the situation and being with me.  I am not sure if he was just too nervous because he was attracted to me, or he was just acting weird. I know dumb blondes make men act dumb, but I am not a female nor blonde in appearance.

I also was psychological testing him, and I moved my arms, and he repeated my action. We were close together in seats as well, and his legs were towards me. In my head I thought, "This guy is into me".

I also look good today, and I just recently sprayed on my cologne.... it wasn't for him though it was for the instructor.

[spacial]

Either he's figured you're genetically female or he finds you attractive and is scared of being gay.

In any case, take control of this situation. From the sound of it, this guy could cause problems if he things he can dominate you.

I meet creeps like that now and again.

[Janet_Girl]

Yes and Yes.  OK may be not.  But he might have been reacting to your cologne, depending on what it was.

Being you were giving him a psych eval, it could just be he is being weird.

[Wild Flower]

Yes and Yes.  OK may be not.  But he might have been reacting to your cologne, depending on what it was.

Being you were giving him a psych eval, it could just be he is being weird.

Well I don't like throwing the word "weird" around lol, since giving him a psychological eval is kind of weird. But that's my first test to see if a guy is into me, and usually if it doesn't happen then I close it off from my mind.

My suspicions are telling me he is gay.

[ALX]

Ok.. So he might be:

Gay and hasn't noticed you're ftm.
Gay and has noticed you're ftm
Straight and not noticed you're ftm
Straight and has noticed you're ftm
Bi and has not noticed
Bi and has noticed
Maybe he noticed you wondering if he's into you LOL.

Anyway any  of these could make a guy feel a bit confused and or shy... 

[Wild Flower]

Ok.. So he might be:

Gay and hasn't noticed you're ftm.
Gay and has noticed you're ftm
Straight and not noticed you're ftm
Straight and has noticed you're ftm
Bi and has not noticed
Bi and has noticed
Maybe he noticed you wondering if he's into you LOL.

Anyway any  of these could make a guy feel a bit confused and or shy... 

Well.... I didn't wonder until like 5-10 minutes, he was nervous since the start.

[Wild Flower]

BANG!!!!

i checked his facebook, and nothing read gay..... (he has a gay friend but anybody could right? and i know that gay guy since I was into him)....
then I read.... his life revolved around ballet. (still didn't confirmed it)

his status was into women, but I see no gf.....
then he said he had crushes on guys..... (in his notes), and his first love was a guy.

I had to search and search for this info too, like I had to go through old notes....

so I am going to cologne myself to heck tomorrow and wear the best shirt I have.... going to do a mask, going to do the MILES of looking hot tomorrow. This guy will faint tomorrow!

This guy is GAY. Now that I know...  I can do wonders to him!

[Wild Flower]

WTF

Today, he doesn't even look at me in the eye. I put cologne on, and I was wearing a nice shirt too. I was looking good.

He didn't appeared nervous, but distant.... Yesterday he was like mumbling and now today he's like "ehh". I ignored him after like 20 minutes and thought to myself, "This guy is now avoiding me, he lost me, even if he was into me".  So eh... whatever, he's history.  The only way he could try this out again if he shows more effort Monday... but I doubt it.... I really doubt it. 

I then was like, "Why were you having a meltdown yesterday", and he was like, "What are you talking about?", and I said "Nevermind". After about 10 minutes of silence, since I was referring to him acting so weird.

This guy is just weird.... He shows interest, by acting nervous. Then he shows no interest, and avoiding my eyes when I am speaking to him. So I avoided looking at him, and just put him off. And then I said, bye and left, and he didn't respond. Then he was paranoid about the project, making sure everything was perfect.

Then he was like, "What the heck is going on, what the heck is going on", and then he kept on walking off and coming back and walking off to some other person for help.

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I want to give him the benefit of the doubt he's attracted to me, but now I just think he doesn't want to seem gay. Maybe that's why, he's acting weird since he thinks I am a straight guy.

I don't know what to do really, but it's best I move on....

[Espenoah]

Too me, he doesn't sound like he's attracted to you, he just sounds weird...
But that's just my opinion and I might be wrong. Actually I probably am... XD

[Wild Flower]

Too me, he doesn't sound like he's attracted to you, he just sounds weird...
But that's just my opinion and I might be wrong. Actually I probably am... XD

yeah I think you're right, I think it was just neutral really.

I was just upset yesterday because I was really doing the works to get him into me. Before I went to see him I went to the bathroom and sprayed cologne, and  a lotion that smells like mint. It was like, "I"m going to get him".... Still the good thing I saw people glancing at me a lot yesterday.

But he was just a deadbeat, there and just in life. I'm done. I slept on it since yesterday, and I woke up thinking, "That was stupid". He wasn't even that hot, but he was so nervous I thought I had him.

He is just weird. I have guys who are friendly to me regardless, and I am going to focus on them more, the ones who smile at me and say hi to me all the time.

Why did he had to be so weird? I am friends with autistic guys, understood them, but this guy isn't autistic he just gives off so many vibes. He was a nervous wreck on Thursday, and on Friday he ignores me. If he were to be friendly, I would had been friendly with him, and as far as I can tell he is only friends with "ugly guys" and "ugly/average women", and then with me he's just awkward.  If he's into me, it would never work out because he needs to relax.

[Espenoah]

Yup, then I understand that guy completely. It's the kind of people that gravitate towards me, sadly...You kind of have to hang around them to understand them.

But I wouldn't suggest hanging around him, don't get me wrong. XD

[Wild Flower]

Yup, then I understand that guy completely. It's the kind of people that gravitate towards me, sadly...You kind of have to hang around them to understand them.

But I wouldn't suggest hanging around him, don't get me wrong. XD

I don't know how to relate to him, or hang around him. Maybe I am too intimidating and he feels I am above him, that could be it, and I won't give him a day of a chance. I am the male version of Megan Fox, and can make straight guys turn gay sometimes.

[Espenoah]

Well I hope you find a guy who will make you happy then. One who isn't presumably socially awkward...

[Wild Flower]

Well I hope you find a guy who will make you happy then. One who isn't presumably socially awkward...

Well maybe he's just that way with me, how would you approach this guy and break the barrier?  I will try one last time on Monday.

[Wild Flower]

WTF!
I had the dumbest realization, omg, omg. The facebook note I read wasn't even from him but it was directed to some girl's note.
OMG.
Well glad, I didn't straight out flirt with him.... OMG. I feel like an idiot.
Take everything back about him not liking me, it wasn't because he didn't like me, it was because he wasn't into me.

I went and did the works on my image, and it turns out he was a straight guy after all.

I feel like that was just comedy to be honest, now looking it was such the silliest thing ever! I went and tried to look as best as I could, omg.... He must had thought I was insane. Omg.

Still why was he so nervous? But I guess it will be forever a mystery.