Silly random things that happened during life that makes you wonder if life...

[Lunartiger]

       Silly random things that happened during life that makes you wonder if life was hinting that you are different.
       
        Sounds little weird, huh? I have some strange thoughts, I think through my life things have been hinting that I was androgynous. Things that if I looked at them before I identified as being a androgyne.
I'm going to make a little list of interesting random things that pointed to the idea that you was different.

         1. During work at McDonalds, I've been "Thank you maam/miss"
quite a few times. @_@
         2. Mom always saying she wanted to have a daughter, but ended up with all boys. While I am around, not sure if she ever said it to my brothers before. Not to mention I am she likes to use her beauty productions on me sometimes and only me.
         3. Not exacty sure, but seems some girls seemed to be really open with me. Somtimes I hear more than I probably needed to know at times.
 


If I can remember anymore I'll update it~^^

[Kendall]

         1. During work at McDonalds, I've been "Thank you maam/miss"
quite a few times. @_@
         2. Mom always saying she wanted to have a daughter, but ended up with all boys. While I am around, not sure if she ever said it to my brothers before. Not to mention I am she likes to use her beauty productions on me sometimes and only me.
         3. Not exacty sure, but seems some girls seemed to be really open with me. Somtimes I hear more than I probably needed to know at times.

1. I have been thank you maamed before. At first it was ok. Now I do not like ma'am and sir, whether they are male or female expressions. A simple "Thank you" always works for me. Or I even prefer the southern expression "Were it a snake, it would have bit me", though that expression is pretty annoying to me also.

2. My mother treated me the most feminine of the 5 boys that were born first. She did not have a girl until child six, so me at number 4 was sorta a temporary feminine type child. I had dolls growing up unlike the others. I preferred stuff from both sexes. Hotwheels and Barbies. She didnt use beauty products on me. That didnt happen till my little sister got into it when she became a teenager. I asked my mother recently if she thought of me as a girl. She would not respond to what I asked. Nor would she deny anything. She just sorta ignored my question, then talked about something else. She did say I was a very fragile child, that was afraid of my father, and was very sick, that needed a lot of care and security.

3. In highschool and college , yes girls were open to me. Now days not so much. But I think that its just the evolution of aging. They are all married or single with children now. And me being involved in a relationship... you know or can imagine how it goes.

[Jillieann Rose]

Hi Shinobu Hikaru,
From what you have posted here it does sound as if people are picking up on the real you.
Oh I want to add that any MTF Transsexual would love to have the same experiences that you have had. So what people are responding too  does not necessarily in-force that you are androgyne just different.

Jillieann

[Laurry]

Hi everyone!

I've only been ma'amed a couple of times, but it was a while back and was obviously a mistake as I was dressed entirely male and had a beard.  Not too many bearded ladies out there besides Louise and I...LOL

Interestingly enough, I was small and "sickly" as a child too, K.  While I am the oldest of two children, Mom had had (I believe) 3 miscarriages before I was born, so that would have made me the 4th child also.  While I wasn't treated as a girl, or had girl toys growing up, I do remember getting in trouble a couple of times at an early age for sneaking into my parents' room and putting on Mom's makeup.  Not sure if that was out of the ordinary or not...kids tend to emulate their parents and at early ages are not aware of the boy-girl roles.

Also, I too, find that women tell me lots of things they don't tell most guys.  Can't tell you how many ladies tell me about their problems with hubby (especially his lack of interest in things intimate...if you can read between the lines on that, or, conversely, about their great love life). 

Men, on the other hand, don't open up to me any more than they would anyone else...not that men open up much to begin with.  Only close friends discuss problems, and even then, they tend to avoid the important things.

Great questions Shinobu...

.......Laurie

[Lunartiger]

Oh, this post is just a random silly one of mine, just something I thought was interesting. I have many different views and thoughts of house life flow and what could determine how things happen.  I am glad people are picking up on what makes myself, me. Wish I could be more social IRL. *^^*


4. Unexplainable discomfort with the male gender. Not really sure how that fits in, but seemed little weird to me.

5. Fashion advice, though some might be teasing me. At work I've had many many women ask me does this top match with this skirt, which stop looks good on me, and black shoes or the gold ones. Many other questions. I am never really sure what draws them to ask me these questions, since there is always another female cashier or two around me but I don't mind answering them.(Just gets alittle confusing when they bring up very colorful clothings though. @_@)  ^^

6. Few girls telling me I think like a girl.

7. If I can remember correctly I enjoyed playing with dolls, hopscotch, house and jump rope. Places that I lived in when I was younger. Neighbors all seem to have little girls, when a boy was in area, he seemed like an alien from another planet. XD  Little obsession with mini-stuffed animals, like all stuffed ones. I miss my little stuffed bunny. ; ;