I received my 4.5 with flex rod prosthetic a few weeks ago. The shipping was very discreet, plain brown box with a small return address label that did say Reel Magic on it. I am finding pros and cons with this product, but I am still getting used to it and trying to work things out. I am finding it difficult to keep it on if I am not wearing tight briefs. I think I was using too much adhesive (I did get the extra strength stuff) so I am using much less and it has helped, but when I start sweating, like during sex it tends to come off. Also getting the adhesive off the back of the tab is impossible, as you are not supposed to use the adhesive remover on the prosthetic only on you, the cleaner is for the prosthetic but it does not get the adhesive off. Also, I have to say that it is smaller than I was expecting. They really need to make an in between size, such as 5.5" length and 5" girth, as in mho the 4.5" is too small and the 6" is too big at least in the girth department. It is great to pack with, it is a good size for me and is comfortable, I actually just ordered the 4.5" packer from them. It is very realistic looking and feels great. Any other questions I would be happy to try to answer them.