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Surviving High School Gym

Started by piers816, March 28, 2011, 05:24:08 AM

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piers816

I've realized, over the past week or so, that I am not excited for the transition from health to gym class. I thought nothing of it earlier in the semester, because I was in health, but now that I'm starting gym today I'm terrified. Plus, there's a swimming unit.

I don't want to risk having to come out, but is there any way I can avoid swimming at all costs? I don't know if I'd feel comfortable swimming in my binder, and I can't buy a swim top. I've thought of telling my teacher I can't swim, even though I can, but I'm sure he'd say that the swimming part is to teach people how to swim. I'm really not too keen on coming out to my gym teacher just to avoid swimming, either.

I don't know what to do  ???
there is life in every breath you take
and there is hope with every move you make
and every single mistake you think you've made.
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Espenoah

Tell your teacher you have a chlorine allergy? XD That might require some sort of medical proof though...
I dunno, coming out seems like the best option, even if you aren't to keen on it. I had the same fears as you when I came to high school gym, since they had a swimming unit, but I got lucky and didn't have to do it since our school was under construction at the time.
"If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door." -Harvey Milk
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Leek

Quote from: Espenoah on March 28, 2011, 05:29:34 AM
Tell your teacher you have a chlorine allergy? XD

Yeah, I was about to say the same thing.

Orrrr, is it totally out of the question to explain the truth of the matter to your teacher? Is it possible he would understand?
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piers816

The main reason for not explaining the truth is mostly because I don't want to, but another part of it is because I'm not out to my parents yet, and don't want him to call them up and have them find out that way.

It's just a sticky situation  :(
there is life in every breath you take
and there is hope with every move you make
and every single mistake you think you've made.
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Espenoah

Oh, that complicates things. If your parents knew, that would be different. I understand why you don't want to come out now...

In that case, if you can, explain to your teacher that you have a chest disfiguration (which is technically true) that you are sensitive about, and ask politely if you could wear a shirt over the top of your swimsuit? Maybe you wouldn't wear a binder, but at least you would be covered, right?
"If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door." -Harvey Milk
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nickikim

I have an over powering phobia of swimming. I m not suggesting you lie but,  what if you developed the same condition. Will sitting out swimming cost you the course, or just percentage.  I hated  gym .
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EliNewGuy

Some ideas (in no particular order):

1.  Do your absolute best, always change for class, rack up a good grade in the other units.  Refuse to change for class during the swimming unit.  Take the GPA hit.  This does not work if you are in high school and shooting for something like the top 10% of your class (you didn't say if it was HS or MS). 

2.  Talk to your pediatrician and tell hir that you're trans but don't want to come out to your parents.  By law, this conversation is totally confidential.*  Ask for a doctor's note excusing you from gym due to your "birth defect" or other reason that zie can justify putting down. 
*If your doc busts this and outs you to your parents, file a lawsuit and use the money to go to a school without a pool.  ;)

3.  The idea someone had about asking to wear the shirt.

4.  Ask your teacher if you can do an alternative unit or class.  In my school, we could opt for a.m. weight training instead of gym.

5.  Fake an ankle sprain.  At the doctor's office, make sure to wince a lot when they feel around your non-swollen ankle.  This may get you a note, though I'm not sure.  I have successfully faked PT's into thinking my sprain was better than it was, but I've never tried making it seem worse.   

6.  In some schools, varsity athletes are PE-exempt.  Join a sports team?

7.  Cut class.  You'll get in trouble and serve some detention or ISS.  Not highly recommended but perhaps a last resort.

8.  "Suck it up."  Not a great option, but still worth listing as it is an option.  :/

9.  Ask if you could get credit for taking a swimming course elsewhere, like at night at the YMCA.  You would still need to wear a swimsuit somewhere, but at least not in front of your peers. 

10.  Pack for swimming.  Freak 'em all the hell out!  (okay, not realistic, but listed just for the smile/giggle factor of imagining that... :)

11.  Change into the suit one time - on the first day of the swimming unit.  Fake a panic attack when you catch sight of the pool - I mean full-on rocking in fetal position on the ground like Ricky Sway in "The Client."  When you get taken to Guidance, tell them some story about watching <insert horror movie about drowning here - do some research> and ever since then being unable to go near a pool.  Act like you're mortified and you wish you could, and you've never told anyone this before so please don't call your parents.  They still will, but at least it covers the fact that your 'rents will have no idea WTF you're talking about.  NOTE:  this will not work if you've gone swimming in recent memory and your parents call it out. 

12.  Only if you're SUPER bold: wear a monstrously risque swimsuit. Think Playboy bunny.  They'll make you put your clothes back on.  Wash, rinse, repeat as necessary.  Might land you in disciplinary trouble.  :/

Running out of ideas - best of luck!  :O
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kyril

Just tell your teacher you're not comfortable being seen in a swimsuit. Don't give a reason. If he presses you, mumble something about religion; if he asks for a not from your parents, tell him they don't know you're religious and you're afraid to tell them. Or something like that. Either way, see if he'll let you wear a T-shirt and shorts/swim trunks, or excuse you from the swimming unit.


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Tad

maybe head to the pool first and try swimming in your binder? See if that's an option for you? lots of people wear a binder swimming.

Or... having a cold always got me out of swimming lessons back in elementary. Albeit I was really sick, but having a cold and hacking and sniffling is a pretty easy way to get out of swimming. perhaps go kiss someone with a cold and make sure you get lots of lovely germs?
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piers816

Thanks for all the ideas guys :)
I was going to just sit out for the swimming unit, but then learned my school has really complex rules regarding gym/swimming. First, we swim once a week every week, not just for like a week and then it's over. Another thing is that two days without getting dressed means that I fail the course - and I really can't have that happen right now. I don't want to go through the trouble of faking an injury or getting a fake note, so I think I'll just deal with it best I can. Fortunately, I found that the one-piece swim suit isn't mandatory and I can wear a t-shirt and swimming trunks.

Again, thanks for all the suggestions :)

there is life in every breath you take
and there is hope with every move you make
and every single mistake you think you've made.
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Tad

Wait, does your teacher know you as female and your classmates as male.. or what?
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piers816

Quote from: Tad on March 28, 2011, 05:52:18 PM
Wait, does your teacher know you as female and your classmates as male.. or what?

I'm not out yet, so most everyone knows me as female and my teacher knows me as female, too. Few people know about my transexuality, actually.

It's mostly dysphoria that's making me so uncomfortable - not really how people perceive me because I'm not out yet.
there is life in every breath you take
and there is hope with every move you make
and every single mistake you think you've made.
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Tad

ahh, and hear I thought you were trying to stay as male. I'd just go for the tshirt then in your situation. it's not abnormal for girls to throw a tshirt on over their bathing suit
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