Congratulations on finding the real you-the woman at your core.
You're family is blinded by ignorance and religion. The fact that you are also IS just shows their complete detachment from reality. While they are being abusive, stay away from them. No one deserves that. In time, they may come to realize how stupid they were. Family, to me, means unconditional love. Isn't that what their religion calls upon them to do?
What I didn't yet see in your pictures is a smile. I understand that it may be very difficult at this point. However, in time, you will let more and more or your heart and beauty show through your smile.
You'll discover as you go along, what is necessary for transition. One important item to do as soon as you can afford it, is electrolysis. I didn't necessarily see a beard shadow in the photos, but it is a definite 'tell' when people see it.
Also important to keep some weight on your body. A lot of new women think that dropping weight will help their passability. The opposite is often true, as gg's have an extra fat layer on their face and body.
Good luck~