Quote from: Wraith on March 27, 2011, 11:50:00 PM
I was in a car with a woman, no need to tell who, and when we got into the parking house by her workplace I noticed a support column beside her parking lot, to which a thick foam/rubber kind of material was strapped. I asked what it was for, and she answered with a chuckle: "oh it's just because we're so many women who work here".
I just sat there stunned and silent for a moment. She then said that this stereotype was "actually true".
I hate that stereotype! My boyfriend believes it too, and my boyfriend believes I'm a girl, so it's annoying. I do suck at avoiding poles in parking garages, but that's because I'm absent-minded and have trouble focusing on more than one task at a time, and when I'm just leaving or almost parking I tend to slack off the most, so I have a few dents.

But it's not because I'm a girl! And my mom is a
far better driver than my dad- my dad and I have the same driving problem.
I think women tell themselves they're bad drivers and make it come true a lot of times. I've seen a similar phenomena occur with women and mechanical/ technical stuff and in math and science courses. They say they can't understand it. And of course if they believe they can't, they can't.
I hate being told that I'm too sweet and sensitive to be a boy. Lots of boys that I've known have been sweet; most of them just kept it to themselves around other men especially, like I do now for the most part. Of course I was openly sweet when I thought I was a girl! Girls are allowed to be sweet in public, so I was. But yeah, if my bf tells me one more time that boys aren't sweet and sensitive...

The irony is that he is definitely sensitive and describes himself as sweet too- just only to his girlfriends.

Also, it annoys me when people assume that because they know me as a girl, that when my bf tells them I'm about 80% into guys and about 20% into girls (really it's more like 70/30, but I digress,) that I'm being bisexual to be sexy. I'm a dude anyway, but there are girls who are mostly straight but still bisexual who are actually bisexual and could have a long-term relationship with a girl; they're not saying it for other peoples benefit. I guess that's not really a gender thing so much, but it annoys me.