I agree; time is the best treatment for some cases of unruly hair. For some of us, the only manageability technique is gravity. Of course, for me, a wig is the only real feminine hair solution because of a bad case of male pattern baldness that 13 months of hormones may have stopped, but as yet not significently reversed. The only long-term solution is find a hairdresser that is discreet. Be patient.
Susan Kay