Yes, this is strange. I wasn't even comfortable hanging with someone like that when I was "one of the guys" I definitely don't consider myself an ultra fem trans or a girly girl, but I also would feel very uncomfortable relating with someone like this.
On the other hand I don't like being with another trans and have to hear "oh isn't he a hunk" every time. To me this is very adolescent behavior on both parts.
I am STILL as of yet attracted to women, I don't see that changing but I noticed because men treat me different I look at them different now.
I was at a scrapyard the other day, (ya don't ask) I was presenting male (if you call it that) but the "guys" really were nice to me, so not sure who they thought I was. Its nice to be treated nicely, not that it never happened when I was a guy, but......
6 months ago I would of never set foot in a place like this for fear of how I looked. I do feel somewhat uncomfortable, but thats only because I don't know what gender I will be viewed as.
I definitely look at women's behinds, but in
jealousy or "is she nuts wearing that". There are very few, if any times I look at a female and think WOW I'd like to............I never did that too much as a guy but now never. I think I have become frigid

Shelly