Which explains your situation? I want to know which better explains my situation, incongruence seems to be the one.
I have known and been in love with men and women. I have known complete happiness in many ways, but many things cannot be fulfilled due to an incongruence between this body and how my body should be. I am the insider with the outsiders point of view. There was always a reality but it was unreal at the very same time, I was completely there but not; now I realise in certain ways interaction was curtailed and reality has become solid.
Incongruence explains my situation far better than dysphoria ever could. I just have never felt major dysphoria my life jas been curtailed in many ways I just never thought it could be solved, I'm adaptable I've lived 36 years like this, I'm just not that adaptable.
I'm happy, very happy in many ways, and life could be better just like every other person, but I'm missing huge junks of my life. I don't feel dysphoria I've adapted.
