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Started by JohnAlex, April 17, 2011, 02:36:56 PM

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JohnAlex

Does anyone know what some of the most trans-friendly cities in the U.S. are?

I tried running a google search for it, and I wasn't getting very many many results, and some were contradicting eachother. 

Also, good to know would be some of the WORSE trans-friendly cities in the U.S.

I'm looking into where I want to go away to college to, and I'd also like to know where to avoid.

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tekla

I'm looking into where I want to go away to college to, and I'd also like to know where to avoid.

The only acceptable choice as to where to go to college is this:
Go to the school that has the best program in what you want to study that you can get into. 

If you do it right where you are will not make a difference as your not going to be 'living' in that city or place, your going to be stuck in the library or the lab or in front of your computer writing, or doing whatever it is you want to learn how to do.  You're leaving after 4 years anyway.
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quinn

I agree with tekla. Don't let your fears about being treated badly for being trans get in the way of your education. One thing I will say about which places to avoid, though, is do yourself a favor and don't go to school in Utah. With the exception of Salt Lake City, it's about as conservative--and thus anti-trans--as it gets.
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JohnAlex

Quote from: tekla on April 17, 2011, 02:40:47 PM
I'm looking into where I want to go away to college to, and I'd also like to know where to avoid.

The only acceptable choice as to where to go to college is this:
Go to the school that has the best program in what you want to study that you can get into.

If you do it right where you are will not make a difference as your not going to be 'living' in that city or place, your going to be stuck in the library or the lab or in front of your computer writing, or doing whatever it is you want to learn how to do.  You're leaving after 4 years anyway.

I'm not an idiot.  I wouldn't pick a college that didn't off the program I want.  but there are many colleges which offer programs I am interested in.  So I still need to narrow it down.  Why do you make so many assumptions in your posts?  I also want to move away from my family, so I would actually consider moving and living in the city I go away to college at.

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JohnAlex

Quote from: quinn on April 17, 2011, 02:47:15 PMOne thing I will say about which places to avoid, though, is do yourself a favor and don't go to school in Utah. With the exception of Salt Lake City, it's about as conservative--and thus anti-trans--as it gets.

No going to Utah.  thank you.  :)

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Amazon D

Arcata calif has humboldt state university and is very trans friendly but smaller and the weather never freezes if you like that. It does rain though in winter time. If your not into growing and selling pot you will be thought of as a responsible student because they grows tons there and so most of the focus which is negative is on those who just hang out and do drugs. So you would look like a wonderful citizen compared to the rest of the locals who live there. I have been all over the USA and that would be my choice. I traveled the usa from 2000 to 2004 by RV and stopped at every city and town all over the usa from seattle to key west and boston to coronado island west of san diego calif.
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Maddie Secutura

The University of Pittsburgh in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania is pretty liberal.  The city has a lot of gay/trans friendly places do it's not a bad place to consider.


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Espenoah

Well, the Twin Cities in Minnesota was recently voted the gayest city in the US. If I had the link to it, I'd show it to you...But being a Twin Cities native, I can vouch for the LGBT friendliness. If you can find a university around here you like, it'd be a great option. Besides, all of Minnesota is just generally friendly. We're "Minnesota nice," after all.
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JohnAlex

Humboldt State University in CA.
The University of Pittsburgh in Pennsylvania.
And the Twin Cities in Minnesota.

Thanks everyone!  I will be looking into those places.


I also read through google that some say Boston is real trans-friendly. Can anyone here confirm that?

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Nikolai_S

Can't say I've seen much of a trans presence in Pittsburgh, myself, but I agree it's liberal and safe, as long as you stay away from certain areas. I can't vouch for Boston... I do know it has a major trans health clinic.

Portland and San Francisco are my best recommendations. Portland particularly, it has a great atmosphere and lots of trans resources. Universities in both places have trans friendly practices.

Take a look at this list for ideas of particular colleges, but definitely do some research outside of it. http://www.transgenderlaw.org/college/index.htm
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Maddie Secutura

I transitioned in Pittsburgh.  I found it to be rather accomodating.  Pitt didn't bat an eyelash to my name change and there's a school funded LGBT club.  You can find gender therapists pretty easily and general practitioners who can prescribe HRT. 

Clearly I'm a little biased.


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Nygeel

The first thing I would think of would be "What states have laws with gender protection with employment" since on occasion those laws continue with schooling. If a state as a GENDA/ENDA with gender identity/expression included as well as public amenities then the law is a bit on your side with some things (bunch of different variables in that). States that have transgender protection with employment are California, Oregon, Washington, New Mexico, Colorado, Minnesota, Iowa, Illinois, Maine, Rhode Island, Vermont, New Jersey, and DC. Within these states there are a few major cities with large LGBT communities. California has San Francisco, Oregon has Portland, Washington has Seattle, no clue what's in New Mexico or Colorado, Minnesota has Minneapolis-St Paul, Iowa has corn, Illinois has Chicago, Maine is cold, Rhode Island is small, Vermont has skiing...I totally went off topic.

ANYWAYS! If you're looking for a major city, many of 'em have a small area that's LGBT friendly. Keep in mind other factors that you want in a school. Close enough to home where you could come home once a month? Far away so you don't need to see those people? What sort of climate? Are you willing and able to go outside wearing 3-5 layers of clothing yet still feel cold?

I've been to Boston and I can't say if it's trans friendly or not. I was there with a group of New Yorkers (all of us somewhere within the LGBT community) one of which decided to wear a Yankee cap...we were not treated very kindly.
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Nikolai_S

Quote from: Maddie Secutura on April 18, 2011, 12:44:03 AM
I transitioned in Pittsburgh.  I found it to be rather accomodating.  Pitt didn't bat an eyelash to my name change and there's a school funded LGBT club.  You can find gender therapists pretty easily and general practitioners who can prescribe HRT. 

Clearly I'm a little biased.

That's good to know. I was raised in Pittsburgh, but I haven't lived there for more than a few months at a time since I was 12.

Just remembered, Rochester isn't bad. The LGBT youth group I visited there actually had enough trans youth to branch off into their own group. And that's where my prescribing doctor is located. The queer community there is definitely present and vocal.
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tekla

Why do you make so many assumptions in your posts?
The only thing I'm assuming, and that's only after teaching at the university level for a decade is that along the lines of Bob Seger singing 'wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then' that few single decisions will impact the rest of your life the way your choice of college (and how well you do there) does, and few people make that choice for any of the right reasons.  Where the college actually is physically located is a pretty negative value to factor in.  And I'll tell you why, the more you like where you are, the more exciting the place and all that, the harder it's going to be to do good work.  My parents set down two rules for me picking a college, nether of them seemed to make sense to me then, but seem absolutely brilliant now.  One: it had to be at least 500 miles from home.*  Two: I had to wait (and work) for one year after high school before I went.

Waiting and working for a year gave me two good things.  First of all, after a year of working at Jack-in-the-Box there was no amount of work I wasn't willing to do in order to insure that I'd never have to work in that kind of job ever again.  Second, though I did big pile of college tours my senior year they were sales jobs.  That off year I got to go visit a lot of my friends at their colleges, and watch people I knew well do their first year hither, dither, and yon. and that gave me a lot more information to base my decision on.  One thing I noticed is that the people I knew who went to real cool exciting places like University of Colorado at Boulder, or UCLA, or Columbia all flunked out by the end of the first year because they were having too much fun skiing, or hanging on the beach, or living in NYC to study.  The more time you spend off-campus, the less school work you're doing.

I had a lot of help from my high school teachers in choosing the kind of school I wanted to go to, and then finding it.  I really wanted a hard-core, classical education which was fast-disappearing even then (1974) and is all but non-existent today.  I wanted a place with real academic requirements.  Like having to take English Comp first semester freshmen year.  We had one writing assignment every week (so 15 or so), if you had five mistakes (grammar, usage, spelling) on a paper (and not even 'more than five' they stopped reading at that point, because why bother, you obviously didn't) you got an 'F', and 3 'F's and you failed the course, and if you failed that course you failed out of school.  I'm not sure it taught me crap about writing, other courses would do that.  But it made everyone on my dorm floor first rate proofreaders for ourselves and each other in very rapid order and it set a base standard for our work that continued through the 4 years.  I also wanted small classes, not huge lectures.  I wanted teachers teaching me and grading my papers who were full professors with the PhD and all, and not some disgruntled grad/ex-grad ABD student.  And I wanted a campus small enough that I didn't need to take a bus between classes.  Small enough, and close enough that I could go to class in my bathrobe and slippers if I wanted to.  (and I did).  And I wanted them to have a first rate fine arts program.  And I wanted a place where I could be an adult, not a place acting in loco parentis which is how lots of places were then.

And, I knew that in order for me to do well I needed a pretty boring place.  So I wound up getting accepted at 4 places, Notre Dame University, Bowdoin College, St. John's College (the Annapolis one, not the NYC one), and Drake University.  I cut ND and St Johns off the list because I was pretty much over Catholic school by then (12 years), and wanted a more secular education, and though I was wrong about St. Johns, I wasn't about ND.  So, Bowdoin College or Drake?  The weather in both places sucks big time, so that was about equal, but Bowdoin was next to a Navy base and that seemed a huge negative, and the area is absolute beautiful and that scared me too.

But Drake, Drake is in Des Moines Iowa.  You know how Kurt Vonnegut described how boring Indianapolis was by saying a year there was "the 500-mile Speedway Race, and then 364 days of miniature golf?"  Well Des Moines didn't have a race, or miniature golf.  There was absolutely nothing to do.  Nothing.  Ever.  Studying never looked more interesting and exciting than it does in Des Moines.  I didn't care about what the cultural/political/social climate in Des Moines was, I wasn't going to really be associating with Des Moines at all, hell I barely ever left the little neighborhood the school was in.  And out of the 4 Drake's College of Fine Arts was world-class, much, much better than the others. 

Which is the second point.  Colleges and Universities are like vehicles and they range from Ferraris in full race tuning to tricycles without wheels. It makes a huge difference in how far you go and how fast you get there.  And it's a program by program deal, not an overall thing.  So what you want to study - and how well people from there do after they get out - should be the most important factor in choosing between options.  Lots of colleges have film programs.  I'm sure lots of them are just swell.  But if your serrious about working in the movie industry there are really only three, USC School of Cinematic Arts, American Film Institute Conservatory in LA, and The Tisch School of the Arts for Film and Television at New York University.  Everything else is just something less.  And out of those something less ones, about 4 more are OK, and the rest are more or less a joke.  UC (Berkeley) here in the SF Bay Area is one of the most prestigious universities in the world and in the history of higher education.  In areas like Physics, Math, and applied sciences it's pretty much second to none.  But for things like English Lit, or History, or Political Science it's not even in the running.  Harvard and Yale are both world renowned.  In law, political science and history they are about the best ever.  But in something like acting, well Yale is awesome, Harvard a joke.  And so it goes. which is why it's so important to choose by the excellence of the program of study you want, not where it is.

Besides - and this is important - just because the place is liberal or conservative does not mean the college is.  Des Moines is about as 'Heartland-Christian-Insurance Capitol-Republican' as it gets.  But Drake was one of the first colleges that had co-ed dorms, and the year before I got there had completely abolished it's Student Code of Conduct for everything except academic conduct stuff like cheating and plagiarism.  And that was done by all honor code in the first place.  Never once in 4 years had any professor or proctor monitor any test I took.  I had to write on the cover of the blue book "I promise not to give or receive aid during the taking of this test" and that was it.  BTW, never heard of anyone cheating either.  In state schools, it's rampant.  And without all the other personal conduct rules the campus atmosphere was anything but 'Heartland-Christian-Insurance Capitol-Republican' - in fact, it was more liberal than the San Francisco I had come there from.



* - That was to encourage me to grow up and learn to live on my own, and not be in a position to drag my laundry home every weekend so mom could do it while I hung out with my 'home town honey' and all the low-lives who weren't doing dick with their lives.  The result was that I deeply and truly became part of the student academic community, and not just someone who showed up and took classes.  It was the most important difference in terms of really learning.
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Amazon D

I JUST FOUND THIS ON CRAIGSLIST FOR HUMBOLDT COUNTY CALIF WHERE ARCATA IS LOCATED

$475 Room For Rent(all utilities included) (Arcata) (map)

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Date: 2011-04-14, 8:28AM PDT

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Room for rent includes all utilities except phone.475.00 pre month.

Must be transgender friendly.

No Smokers,No drugs,No Pets,No couples

This is a 3 bedroom,1.5 bath townhouse.

Washer and dryer on premises.

Close to bus stop and store.

There are 2 people living here now

myself and another female that's going to HUS.

If your looking for a place to party DON'T LOOK HERE.




Prefer a female but will consider a male.



http://humboldt.craigslist.org/roo/2324662514.html   <--MORE INFOR HERE


OH  the local radio stations there also mention transgender in their statements everyday on the radio .. one local stations is http://www.kmud.org in southern humboldt county
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tekla

Humbolt used to have a real good IT program, but it's kinda slipped the last decade.  On the other hand it's program in botany may well be the best in the nation (how do you think all those pot growers up in Humbolt came up with hundreds of different strains and hybrids of marijuana?  Excellent botany students, that's how.)  It's flat out one of the best places in the world to study fire science, particularly as it relates to forest management and wildfires and the entire range of programs in theThe College of Natural Resources & Sciences is top drawer.  It also has the best Native American Studies program in California, and the Oceanography school is the best after Scripts.

On the other hand... Their business program sucks, they don't even have a Business College, its folded into the College of Professional Studies, so it's obviously not that big a deal.  It has no real liberal arts college, or art college all of that stuff is tossed into something they call The College of Arts, Humanities and Social Sciences and right away you can see that the range of subject in that college is just too vast and broad to be effectively addressed.

But pot, did I mention pot already?  Humboldt is to pot as St. Louis is to Budweiser Beer.  It's pretty much one of the most stoned hippie schools in the nation.  Bring your tie-dye and Jerry Garcia tapes, you'll need them.
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Amazon D

Quote from: tekla on April 18, 2011, 01:01:39 PM

But pot, did I mention pot already?  Humboldt is to pot as St. Louis is to Budweiser Beer.  It's pretty much one of the most stoned hippie schools in the nation.  Bring your tie-dye and Jerry Garcia tapes, you'll need them.

but go as a wharf rat = Wharf Rats Clean and sober Deadheads
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Julie1957

Boston is moderately trans friendly, particularly in Boston proper and the close in towns like Cambridge.  The farther you go to the suburbs the less friendly it gets. 
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xxUltraModLadyxx

it's kind of impossible to move somewhere with the expectation that no harm can be done to you. you might as well live life under your bed if that's what you want to try to do. it's a matter of good judgement on who you tell you are transsexual and who you don't. it's not like we go into a room of people, and say "guess what everyone? you are in the same room as a transsexual!"
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Nygeel

Quote from: SpaceyGirl on April 18, 2011, 09:50:52 PM
it's not like we go into a room of people, and say "guess what everyone? you are in the same room as a transsexual!"
Only if all of the other people are also trans.
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