i don't expect people to be gender aficianados

[xxUltraModLadyxx]

i've decided that i just expect people to be respectful of who i am as an individual. does that sound reasonable enough?

[Izumi]

i've decided that i just expect people to be respectful of who i am as an individual. does that sound reasonable enough?

You can decide anything you want, they can decide what they want, sometimes the two decisions don't match.

Respect is also earned not given, curtsey however can be given freely, always good to be polite after all.