Purchasing Stp's, packers and other things

[PandaValentine]

My first stp/packer I ordered back when I had a paypal account, so all was simple then. Now I don't even have a bank account because I had this fine on one that I refused to pay, and I can't open a new one until I get my new ID. Anyways so my mom never had to know about me buying that. She let me use her card to buy my binders (since I paid her for them), so I tend to use her card when I really need to. Credit cards are a waste of money in my opinion. Anyways I really wanted to get a pump, and a new packer (smaller one), mainly because I feel I can wear it since I pass more and the bigger one makes it look like I got some raging hard on.

I asked her myself if things showed up on her credit card about what she purchased and she said it does, then looked all concerned so I started laughing like I was just trying to freak her out and I think she may have bought it. My point is I don't want my mum to know EVERYTHING that goes on in my personal life, that includes what is going on in my pants! I don't want to have to explain what I possibly need a pump for, or what I ordered on a 'sex' site. My mum and I are not that close, and trust me, this would not be a FUN bonding experience, talking about this stuff!

Anyways does anyone know if stuff from sex sites or the items show up on credit cards? Like the details? Are there any alternatives? I really dislike going to sex shops since I feel so out of place (looking twelve and all) and I basically want this specific stuff on a sex site for FTMS. I just don't know what to do. Any of you guys know what specifically shows up on cards, or if the site is listed where it's from or something like that? I don't know the details of credit card bills so this is all really scary and I don't want myself in a sticky situation.

[Bahzi]

I don't know much about what sex stores or FTM specific sites bill as, but I do know that if you've issues with banks, prepaid Visa cards are great for online purchases.  With the reloadable kind like Wal-mart sells you can even open a Paypal account.  That's what I did until I paid off the overdraft fees on some old, closed bank accounts from my less fiscally responsible days.  They only charge like $3 a month to use it, and to not be reliant on someone for incredibly personal purchases, I think it's very much worth it.

[EliNewGuy]

You can also get money orders at the local post office and use those.  Good luck!

[Tesseract Allen]

You can also get money orders at the local post office and use those.  Good luck!

I work at a post office, go for the prepaid Visas. They have less hassle over all and are basicly instant gratification for any online perchace. 

[sascraps]

Yeah, I was going to suggest a prepaid visa maybe. Although some sites may require that the name & address on the card match the shipping address, and in that case, I don't think (but I don't know) if prepaid credit cards that you buy at Walmart or somewhere would have your name & address attached to it.

[Tesseract Allen]

Yeah, I was going to suggest a prepaid visa maybe. Although some sites may require that the name & address on the card match the shipping address, and in that case, I don't think (but I don't know) if prepaid credit cards that you buy at Walmart or somewhere would have your name & address attached to it.

You can input you own adress on the card when you go online to activate it, if I remember correctly that is.

[PandaValentine]

So after your done with the pre-paid visa cards you can just trash em right? (cancel them?) Because I'd only use it once, have no other reason for keeping it. Also if I did happen to get one at walmart is there like a certain fee? I know with the much music card they charge you 35 bucks for the card plus five bucks initial load. That's what I was planning to get when I go get my surgery, but if Walmart's got cheaper that'd be great.

So with the prepaid ones NOBODY will ever basically find out what I ordered right? I mean besides the fact if it was shipped to me and some jerk decided to go through my mail (which my parents have done...freaking asses).

Anyways thanks for the responses guys, I think this may just be the solution I was looking for. XD

[Bahzi]

So after your done with the pre-paid visa cards you can just trash em right? (cancel them?) Because I'd only use it once, have no other reason for keeping it. Also if I did happen to get one at walmart is there like a certain fee? I know with the much music card they charge you 35 bucks for the card plus five bucks initial load. That's what I was planning to get when I go get my surgery, but if Walmart's got cheaper that'd be great.

So with the prepaid ones NOBODY will ever basically find out what I ordered right? I mean besides the fact if it was shipped to me and some jerk decided to go through my mail (which my parents have done...freaking asses).

Anyways thanks for the responses guys, I think this may just be the solution I was looking for. XD

Yep, you can cancel the cards whenever you like.  The Wal-mart reloadables can even be loaded with direct deposit from a job, and all you'd have to do is tell your employer to switch back to printed paychecks or give them account info for a bank account to stop it from loading to the prepaid card.  If you do that, there's no reload fees.  I think the card is initially free, and I don't believe there's a minimum load amount, you'd just pay the $3 load fee unless you had direct deposit.   The only other fee would be the withdrawl fees at ATM's if you use it to get cash.  You can get the card mailed to you before you load it from their site, and that way you don't have to get the temporary card from the store.  It has your name and address tied to it, so it works fine for online purchases, but unless something's changed, they don't mail statements of account activity out, that's only viewable to you online.

So, unless they were to snoop through your packages or go through your emails and such, there is no way anyone would find out what you've ordered that way, there's no paper trail.

https://www.walmartmoneycard.com/walmart

[PandaValentine]

Thanks for all the help, much appreciated.

[PandaValentine]

Err actually I don't think they have that one in Canada. They only have a regular mastercard... stupid Canada. We lack everything good here. Just like when I went to the states and this one grocery store has a whole isle of peanuts...I was like :O and never wanted to go back to Canada. (even though I have a nut allergy, but still no wonder America has an issue with obesity, there is so much variety! I can completely understand how easy it is to be trapped, the foods so damn tempting!)

[Tesseract Allen]

Err actually I don't think they have that one in Canada. They only have a regular mastercard... stupid Canada. We lack everything good here. Just like when I went to the states and this one grocery store has a whole isle of peanuts...I was like :O and never wanted to go back to Canada. (even though I have a nut allergy, but still no wonder America has an issue with obesity, there is so much variety! I can completely understand how easy it is to be trapped, the foods so damn tempting!)

Go to your local post office, Canada post has prepayed Visas.