What kind of therapist would say such a thing? That's terrible, and either your wife is lying, or the therapist received his or her qualification from an ad at the back of a cereal carton.
I can understand your wife's motivations for treating you like a pariah. Of course, that doesn't make it right. The path we are on isn't easy at all, especially when faced with more traditional viewpoints where who we are is perceived by others as something to be ashamed of.
Anyway, I wish you all the best!
