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I may have to re-think the strategy

Started by Cindy, April 26, 2011, 03:11:32 AM

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Cindy


OK the idea, vague as ever was to slowly be accepted as I did more and more stuff. But I would pass as a guy at work etc. My friends know the reasons so I won't repeat them Anyhow, today is a public holiday in South Australia and I was in boy mode since I visited my wife in the nursing home.

So after I went to Glenelg, a big tourist area in Adelaide, and close to where I live, and  place I go to often, as I shop there for the usual store items. Anyhow I go into a jewellery female stuff shop, handbags, trinkets etc. I'm asked if I need help, No just looking. I see a cute pair of ear rings, Oh can I see them? Oh they are just you she says (Uh :laugh:) they are long enough to stroke your neck but short enough not to get in the way (Uh :laugh:). I'm sorry they are for you? Yes, so we have a chat and I end up with another pair of ear rings :laugh: :laugh:. And feel good.
So next I pass Casual Image, a clothes shop and I look at the top etc at the front of the shop. I go in and see an assistant, what size is this? small she says, do you have a medium? She checks and says No, but I think a small will fit  you (Uh  :laugh:). Try it on, it's the only way to find out (Uh :laugh:). Yes that fits fine even though I haven't got my upper body forms on. Shouldn't be a problem there is a lot of stretch in the bust area, she replies. I'd like the leggings as well, these are small she says try them on, of I go again :laugh:. Yes they are fine I say. Just had a thought, she says. These are a pair of tight trousers rather than leggings and the have a cute detail at the ankle. Oh I'll try them on (Uh :laugh:).
They looked so cute..

I go back to the counter and say, you are so evil :laugh:. She replies it will give you more options that just the leggings,smile. Where are you of to, I'm being taken out to dinner and was going to wear a skirt and top but saw this and thought they were cute.

She packed them up and her final comment was have a great dinner.

The other thing I noticed was that I was not in anyway nervous, my heartbeat didn't change, I felt totally relaxed and very normal.  And I was treated as a totally normal woman.

I reflect, I now have twin ear-rings, lasered face (which is looking great) finally got the upper lip under control. Shaped eyebrows, which look great, not much in the boob.

I wonder what is giving me away?

BTW my avatar is what I was 'forced" :laugh: to buy.

Cindy
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V M

You look great Cindy  :)  Very modern chic

But oh that evil sales lady for twisting your arm and flogging you  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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justmeinoz

Maybe your hair Cindy?
The shoes persuaded them to mug you, I'm sure they talk to each other.
Karen.
"Don't ask me, it was on fire when I lay down on it"
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bethw

" To live is to dance. To dance is to live." Snoopy (aka Charles Shultz)
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Barbara

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Janet_Girl

I can tell by looking at your arms that she twisted them to get you to buy that Cute outfit.  Looks great on you, Sis.
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Padma

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Melody Maia

Strangers will often see the obvious more readily. The folks in your life that don't know probably think you look "funny" at this point. Although eventually they might catch on too. I'm not sure why we plan out our transitions since they have a way of taking on a life of their own that we cannot control.

In any case, congrats!
and i know that i'm never alone
and i know that my heart is my home
Every missing piece of me
I can find in a melody



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Rock_chick

Loving the new outfit Cindy.

I have to admit I have a similar problem with longboards...i just bought another. hee hee
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gennee

Probably something gave you away. Look at the wonderful things that happened. You look great, Cindy.

Gennee



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Suzy

Love the outfit, Cindy!  What I have found is that those closest to you will not see the change because it happens slow, and once a person's identity of you is formed, it is hard to change.  Strangers, however, see the obvious because they do not have the history with you.

Thanks for sharing!

Kristi
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Amy1177

Sounds like you are just down right cozy with yourself.   ;)   Cute outfit.   :)
We were all born this way.  Don't let world stupidness to bring you down to its level.  Rise above and love yourself.   ;)
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