Jessica
I'm happy you had something good happen after that BS.
I too have children, I hate myself at times for doing this to them. I am not out to them yet but at times I present myself fairly obvious. I took my youngest to the store today, I asked like usual for him to try not to call me Dad out loud (I am getting use to doing this, UGH)
before walking in I said jokingly ,"well you could call me Mom"
he said "no way"
I at first took this sadly even though I do not want to be there Mom, it would still be so much easier if they called me that instead.
He then explained saying your nothing like Mom she's ........(puts his hands out to show big belly)
I stopped him before he said anymore, but I was happy to understand that he thought I wanted him to see me like
his Mom.
I might be able to get them to realize I'm not trying to be Mom, just their Dad that happens to look like
A Mom.
Question for you: If your ex finds out they are calling you this, will she be upset or ok with it. I couldn't imagine what my ex would do, probably try and sue me
![Shocked :o](https://www.susans.org/Smileys/susans/shocked.gif)
Shelly