People always think they can force one to not becoming gay or transgender, this from parents, to other family, so called friends, and schools, and government, yet actions like what they are doing by forcing one with these feeling to hide it away, will just bring instability to those individuals, that it will not go away, cannot, impossible, it eventually comes back out, this after much depression and anger for that person through years of living as they are forced to, always unhappy with what they are, how they have to live, just so others not like that don't have to see a gay or transsexual. I hate conformity, we are not all the same and shouldn't be, we are not ants, we are not borg. Much worst so is that this is a means of trying to conform ones out of fear, personal prejudices against things that are different from what is considered normal, things that are too strange for those doing this to handle. Why, its not like they have to live that kind of life. That's what I could never understand about people, why does it bother one so much that others are trying to live their life the way they choose or must, if we aren't hurting anyone, what's the problem.