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Started by juliemac, May 07, 2011, 07:59:07 AM

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FairyGirl

Quote from: Valeriedances on May 16, 2011, 10:53:56 AMHmm, this might qualify as douching...

yes, but I'll never admit it :P

Quote from: juliemac on May 16, 2011, 04:05:01 PMThanks. Coffee every where.

LOL glad I saw it BEFORE I had my first cup :laugh:
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Suigeniris

Quote from: FairyGirl on May 16, 2011, 02:42:04 AM
well mine was woman-made (Dr. McGinn) but yeah, I get what you meant lol ;)

LOL LOL LMAO I LOVE IT !!!!!  As a McGinn girl I also dont douche but find the handwand quite resourceful :")) and I also dont smell anything foul or funny  :icon_wink: just girlie scent heheheehehhehheheehhe

Valerie your HALARIOUS !!! I love it


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aubrey

I'm officially supposed to stop douching tomorrow according to Brassard but I think I'm going to keep it up, just less frequently. 
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Morticia

Big issue for me. I was done in 1999, a colon section. If I don't douche weekly I get a hideous buildup. Technically, I don't have to dilate but I still do during droughts so I'll be ready :)

I buy a commercial douche but only use the container with water with an antiseptic. So after my weekly dilation, I flush everything out several times and afterwards I need to wear lots of protection for several hours afterwards because most times not everything comes out straight away and I am effectively vaginally incontinent for a while (yes, I know it's gross, but my reality).

I understand that with a penile inversion this is far less of an issue. If anyone has the same issues and knows of a better way I'm all ears!

(PS. Please don't PM me. My post count isn't high enough to PM)
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rejennyrated

Morticia

I was done in the mid 1980's. I wasn't colon - I was an early experiment in penoscrotal inversion - BUT I had some anatomical "irregularities" and what resulted (after my later revision) was a vaginal canal which is at least partially self lubricating and has a well above average depth. I too have the same issues that you describe, including the tendency for stuff to accumulate in a little "reservoir" at the top and then slowly discharge down later.

I have also found that douching is non optional if I want to keep things smelling sweet but I have found that I can use an traditional women's remedy of a douche made with a weak solution of cider vinegar - followed by a small amount of a probiotic cream which contains lactobacillus vaginalis. This adjusts the PH of the vagina and the bacterial flora to be the same as a natal female. Like you I tend to use a light pad afterwards.

Sorry I cant give you a magic fix - but at least you know that the problem isn't entirely unique to colon ops.
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juliemac

Morticia, I had the same surgery 10 months ago.
Thanks for the info.

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Morticia

Thanks Jenny! I'm interested in the lactobacillus vaginalis you mentioned. I'd not heard of it. I'd just been focused on keeping clean and knocking out phantom germs. I'm pretty sure that any flora would be preferable to whatever I seem to be generating ... will definitely try this out.

Julie, taking info from me is probably a case of the blind leading the blind :) The surgeon and his helper told me beforehand that my private parts would be self cleaning and there'd be no need to douche.  So as time passed my b/f at the time's saying, "Hey, you're getting pretty smelly. Maybe you should douche?" (ever the tactful one). Meanwhile I'm saying no no no, I was told that I'm self cleaning.

More time passed and I'm not smelling so great and thinking that maybe that's just how things are. The b/f is not thrilled at this point and I'm in denial. Then, after a bath all this horrid pooey stuff just fell out of me and I freaked out, thinking it was faeces and I had a fistula.

Took a sample to the doc who tested it and said there was no e-coli. It was just a buildup of cells, blood, natural lube etc.

I was experiencing a fair bit of pain during intercourse for the first few years post-op so the b/f and I had reverted to the pre-op way. Once I got my act together I found that nothing cleans you out like a good bonk ... men actually do have some uses ;)
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juliemac

 A good bonk. Hummmm...
Usually I have to hold my head after a good bonk. You make it sound like a good thing....

(Just kidding)

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Muffins

I've been freaking out about having stuff stuck up at the end and getting compressed, when it hurts during dilation I start thinking "ggeezzz there has to be something stuck up there surely _..". Plus the douche only goes so far up and it gets pretty tight up the end unsure whether the water even gets that far hhmmmm. I'm sure it's fine but sometimes I do worry >__<
But saying that I haven't had much come out recently just a few tiny dots of red or little red stringy bits or lube with a reddish tint to it! I'm thinking it might be the scar tissue-i-ness!
I'm yet to have a bath.. it's too cold here *winter*.  :-\
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