What does it mean when a boy tries on his sister's bra?
Posted by Barbara F. Meltz May 16, 2011 06:00 AM
http://www.boston.com/community/moms/blogs/child_caring/2011/05/what_does_it_me.htmlI have a question about my son, and I really don't know what to do. My son got out of bed this morning, came downstairs, and gave me a hug. I felt something on his back, and realized he was wearing one of his sister's training bras, under his pajama shirt. He is 8 years old. I did ask him why he was wearing it, and he said he didn't know. I am just still shocked. We have tried to be very open to my children about sexual issues. We have talked about homosexuality, explaining that if they are gay, we will still love them. Or, if they have friends who are gay, they will be welcome in our house, etc. This, however, I wasn't prepared for. I know some children cross-dress at 4 and 5, maybe wear a skirt to play house, etc, but this, to me, is different. Should I ignore it? Not bring it up again? Talk to his pediatrician? Please help! I don't want to do or say the wrong thing. Thank you.
From: Confused & Concerned (no town given)
