OMG The Perfect Guy

[~RoadToTrista~]

So, what does he look like?

[Icephoenyx]

Why is everyone bashing Craigslist? I mean yes it does have that 'serial killer' reputation but anything that could happen on CL could happen on ANY other dating/personals site such as Plenty of Fish, Zoosk, Eharmony, OkCupid, etc etc etc. And has anyone taken a look at the TG dating sites that are currently available to us?.....yuck!!!

I will admit that I have met men from Craigslist because it is the virtually the only site that offers trans-friendly personals with people in my area, since I live in a smaller more conservative city. Sure you get the creeps and losers (as you do on all the other dating sites), but I have actually met a lot of nice guys on there too.

So Wild Flower, I say go for it, and have fun! If you don't want to talk to someone you're not interested then you don't have to. I don't regret it at all.

Good luck!

Chrissi

[Nygeel]

Why is everyone bashing Craigslist? I mean yes it does have that 'serial killer' reputation but anything that could happen on CL could happen on ANY other dating/personals site such as Plenty of Fish, Zoosk, Eharmony, OkCupid, etc etc etc. And has anyone taken a look at the TG dating sites that are currently available to us?.....yuck!!!

No, where I am there literally is a serial killer who is finding victims via craigslist. Not a joke. I think the body count is 10 so far.

[ToriJo]

I'd be very cautious if he specifically is looking for trans people (that's what I gathered from your posts - sorry if I got it wrong), particularly if you want to be seen as truly female and this is a long-term relationship that you are seeking.  Most people seeking trans people are seeking people they see as not really female - kind of a kink thing.

[niciwer]

Why is everyone bashing Craigslist? I mean yes it does have that 'serial killer' reputation but anything that could happen on CL could happen on ANY other dating/personals site such as Plenty of Fish, Zoosk, Eharmony, OkCupid, etc etc etc. And has anyone taken a look at the TG dating sites that are currently available to us?.....yuck!!!

Well, on all of those sites, I am smart, funny, rich and have the body of a supermodel.

[kate durcal]

Well he sounded like a sweet guy on the craigslist add, but I am not what he wants right now....

It takes a lot for a man to want to be with a transsexual woman when he could get a GG woman. I don't think he is a ->-bleeped-<- because he wants a relationship.

A psychopath killer could write anything just to get him to trust you, then he will rape you and dismember you.

As for you "I only care about the wallet" Why? it made me feel seek to think that there re still women in the world who think like that.

I have two daughters, and since they were little I have tech them to be self reliant and no less than anybody (male or female). They know how to fire a 1911, shotgun, mend a broken arm, change a tire, fix a computer, etc. They are in the process of earning a degree so that one day they would make their own good salaries and be independent. A woman who can pull her own wight is in a better position to find a good partner.

Having a husband with a fat wallet seldom leads to happiness as seen in the "real wife of..." reality programs. Your man has to have a way of making a living, and be hot, but that is not all. How about being faithful, gentle, respectful, supportive, and fun?

There is more to life than "Jersey shore"

Kate

[Lisbeth]

There are no perfect guys. If you can't see the down side of him, then you can't make an intelligent choice. Just being hot and accepting you as you are, are just not enough. Can you talk through a list of what you need from a partner, emotionally, spiritually, and physically? If you can't, you shouldn't even be looking yet.

A psychopath killer could write anything just to get him to trust you, then he will rape you and dismember you.

And ask yourself if your bull->-bleeped-<- detector is working properly. If you can't tell BS when a man slings it at you, you aren't ready for dating.

[SaveMeJeebus]

There are no perfect guys. If you can't see the down side of him, then you can't make an intelligent choice. Just being hot and accepting you as you are, are just not enough. Can you talk through a list of what you need from a partner, emotionally, spiritually, and physically? If you can't, you shouldn't even be looking yet.And ask yourself if your bull->-bleeped-<- detector is working properly. If you can't tell BS when a man slings it at you, you aren't ready for dating.

Lisbeth, you're absolutely right. Drooling over someone else's looks is utter foolish to jump the gun.

I've tried a few dating sites myself. Craiglist to me lures more sex-crazed people. Even when i've posted in the non- NSA zone, i'll still get someone trying it on.

Most other sites cost, and i'm sorry I have to say this, but any transgender dating site to me lures ->-bleeped-<-s. - Yeah, I am a hypocrite because I am still using one.
I personally enjoy OkCupid more as you have the question section to the site & this enables you to get a better insight on the person you are talking to or will be talking to.