Sorry again for interrupting,
A couple of things, correct medical people, straight away, not after but during. If you are having T injection and the nurse refers to you in any feminine way. STATE, it is sir (whatever you wish to be referred as). Medical people will always refer to people with the track of least resistance. They are also generally gender neutral. This is going to sound rude forgive me, it is not meant in an insulting way. If you look 'feminine' they will call you by female pronouns, if you look masculine they will call you by male pronouns. Unless they know you. I'm often referred to with male pronouns when I go to my medics, no matter how I'm dressed; how any nurse could say Hi sir that is a really cute skirt I do not know, they only do it once
. Most of the medics who deal with me now call me Cindy. Which is fine. I have no problems sitting in the waiting area and the receptionist whatever calls out, Cindy you are on room 5.
I suspect and apologise again, because of FtM upbringing you may have a non-aggressive relationship to people. None aggressive males tend to be walked over, it is the nature of masculinity. So you have to break that learned instinct and be more aggressive in social circumstances. YOU tell them straight away. YOU have to break the mould. YOU stand up for yourself. When on T it should get easier as you will become more aggressive, but you need to practice it, sensibly. It's often told to the girls at Susie's to watch how other woman their age act and relate. It is very important that you guys do as well. Young guys have a social structure that you want to fit in to. But be careful, there is aggression and violence, and most GG guys will have massively higher upper body strength until you can work out etc. So proving yourself through violence will be counter productive.
I now feel like your Grandma
Sorry, I wasn't trying to preach, but I love my boys
Cindy
Cindy
