I just started using an STP made from the Mr. Softie soft pack with a medicine spoon. I got the hang of peeing standing up with it, but it takes a bit of adjusting to get the medicine spoon in place, which draws too much attention to manage using it at a urinal. Also, the medicine spoon is incredibly annoying to sit on, and it keeps pinching me.

So, I'm already looking into new STP packers.
So far, the one that looks the most comfortable is the 4 inch Pee-cock. The reviews I read were mostly positive, but I'm wary about spending $130 on something that doesn't work. I want something that looks realistic enough to use at a urinal, isn't going to poke and pinch me when I'm moving around, and isn't incredibly difficult to pee through (my first STP packer had a nipple style funnel- it was impossible.) Any advice or suggestions? Thanks!