I hope everyone will be supportive when you tell your story, Moxie.
If there are some who are not, remember that it is their problem, not yours. Not everyone has been brought up in a loving, accepting environment.
One thing I was taught that can be helpful in such situations is: 'What other people say about me is none of my business.'
Your business is to grow in grace and love. And to save money. Transition ain't cheap. LOL.

Hugs
Robyn