hi im kayla

[JulyaOrina]

I caution you against stuffing it down her throat, so to speak...  Something like this takes time, and you don't want to be miserable living together.  Tack, kindness, and confidence will always get better results...  But, good luck, and I hope that it goes well for you.

[kayla.kk]

i been reading that book, have you read it? i only stopped at chap 1 cuz its already 1 my time and im pretty dead tired. went to bed at 1 last nite too so thought hummm yeaa. its hard getting me to read books trust me lol i always told my mom NO BOOKS! so me actually finishing this 1s very strange for me. lol but anyways omg! danelle is so lucky! starting off that early and with her mom and brothers being so nice.. my brother is werid and i dunno how he is on this sorta stuff. might be the hardest. my sister would make fun for sure lol its just how our family is but she would accept me. i think... well i g2g so hugs all around! hope all had a great day!

[JulyaOrina]

I'm glad you like it.  All the world's knowledge is in books; they are the gateway to freedom.  I am happy to be of help, and am glad you came to this site when you did.  I'll be here whenever you need.

[kayla.kk]

i love that book. i need to go buy it so when i tell my mom, i can give her the book. that was really fast tho, only 2 years? and in high school! times gunna fly by either or. wish i could of found this when i was 15. i dont think i woulda been ready til 17 but time moves on if ur ready or not. im 23, and hairy beard lol. i have kind of a fem voice. i actually have to push to have my deep voice but when im just chilin it gets softer and high pitched. which is good later on i guess lol still need practice of course. i think im coming out soon tho. what do u think if i just put the book somewhere she can read it while im at work. and she asks whats this? and i tell her ima girl.. or should i tell her before i give the book? im getting anxious

[JulyaOrina]

Only you know what will work for you.  You know yourself and your mom...  I try to ask myself how I would want something of this magnitude brought up to me, if I were them.  Each peson is different in how I present it because of that.  Find what works for you both, but plan on having the answers to the questions, even if the answer is, "I still need to figure that out once I'm there".

[kayla.kk]

well i tried to come out to her last nite. got pretty drunk lol but what happening instead of just saying it i got sick... lol all of her! she still doesnt know but she knows somethings strange now.. i guess i need more time.. i got the answers tho. had few years to think about it. i read where ur suppose to just come out with it and leave details for a later time. i finally gotta work today so i better get ready. hugs to all! have a fun day!