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I'm back from the desert!

Started by MarinaM, May 30, 2011, 01:30:29 PM

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MarinaM

I want to share the experience with you, and I will definitely update this with a link to my photos (I still have to go through over 400 of them!)

To everyone who I didn't respond to in my threads: Thanks!

The most important underlying "social energy" part of the entire experience (for me) began when I showed up at the trip meeting en femme, and then calmly explained myself to those interested (they had all seen me before in a different way) and then I sent out this e-mail:

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Small introductory / explanatory message:

I am terrible at introductions! Since I will be a driver and possibly an important contact for you on the trip, you may or may not have noticed, but I feel I should explain my altered appearance at the previous meeting: I am in fact transsexual at the beginning of transition. This will not be an issue on the trip, I plan to be in "almost boy mode" the entire time. My preferred name is Em, short for Emma. Don't worry about pronoun usage. Due to current biological state, I will also be bunking in a private room within the guys dorm at the DSC. I'm not overly sensitive about anything really, and I am very easygoing.

Regarding batteries: I have 40 extra AA and 40 extra AAA alkaline batteries and a charger that is capable of recharging 8 batteries at once from AAA size to D size at a rate of between 300 to 2000ma per hour (which means it will take only one hour to completely recharge AA rechargeables), I will share these freely on the trip. I can't help it, I'm a flashlight nerd!

I hope you all enjoy yourselves, and feel free to talk to me about anything at all, I am very open to discussion. I can't wait to see you all bright and early in the morning!

Em (Ryan on Dave's associate list)

This went out to 8 of my colleagues and 23 students who accompanied me on the trip. AND IT WAS AWESOME!!! I was treated with respect and adoration (and was dragged into the girls dorm more than a few times), only accidentally called by my birth name 3 times, and was actually informed by a new friend that she was feeding off of my estrogen - at the risk of TMI, I will let you guess what that means  :D

That was all a small bonus, in reality, when compared to the spiritual experience that the desert provides. The Mojave Desert and Death Valley done right are extremely beautiful experiences which can change your entire life.

More to come!
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Janet_Girl

Welcome home, Em.  I take it you had a blast.
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Caith

It really sounds like you had a FANTASTIC trip. 
I'm so very, very happy for you.  :D
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Vicky

I am one of those lucky enough to have spent much of my life in the Mojave Desert and in the Death Valley portions of it, as well as a few less explored niches of it.  If you cooperate with the Desert and accept it on ITS terms, there is a beauty that occurs nowhere else in the world.  As you said, it can well be a life changing experience. As a girl who has experienced the area you were in during all four seasons, I know the spring trip was beautiful, but even the hottest and coldest (there are both!) is something you cannot imagine untile you live it.  Its a little lke being transsexual in a few ways.  I am very glad you had a fantastic time there and took care of our beautiful environment. 
I refuse to have a war of wits with a half armed opponent!!

Wiser now about Post Op reality!!
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AbraCadabra

Lovely Emma,
and thank you for sharing.
Yet the first thing hopped out of my face: "Ach shame, relegated with the boy's dorm..." Ouch. Seems it was fine though.

When had to go to hospital last year (also early transition, 3 month!) I was not so accommodating. Put foot down (gently, um) and was given single room in girl's-ward. Happy girlie, pre-op and all.

Guess you had no single option but did well. Lovely to hear.
Thanks,
Axelle
PS: It will get more compromising soon, just watch this space :-)
Some say: "Free sex ruins everything..."
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MarinaM

Thanks everyone! I'm still working on the album. I swear!
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V M

Glad you had a great experience Emma  :)  Welcome home
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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MarinaM


http://www.flickr.com/photos/63542025@N06/

Let me know how that works!

Apparently I'm up against my limit, but y'all can come back and check my stuff periodically.
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Janet_Girl

I forgot Em, where did you go?  Looks awesome.
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Megan Joanne

Ever since I saw the video you posted with your little one, I thought, you know, I like her, that was just a beautiful moment that you shared then. Thanks again for sharing another wonderful experience.
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MarinaM

  :D

Thanks girls!

I went to Afton Canyon, Baker, Zzyzx, Hole in the wall, Kelso Dunes, Dumont Dunes, China Camp, Amboy Crater, Lava tubes, Panamint Springs, Darwin Falls,  Badwater basin, Sierra nevada aquatic research labs, mono lake, Bodie...

I'm sure I missed a spot. I have more photos on my FB page.
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