Tucking help

[Nikki 311]

Hello ladies!  My name is Nikki and i'm new here.  I have a quick question I hope someone can help me with.

I've been cross dressing for a few years now and i've been looking for a method on "Tucking" that would allow me to not touch my "Parts" when I use the restroom. . . or really all day for that matter.   I want to leave everything in place while I go about my day. 

Is there a such method that would allow this??  tape, etc

Thanks girls!! 

[Megan Joanne]

Every day I wear three sets of underwear just to keep that darn thing in place between my legs, has done well for me all these years (I'm sure there's got to be better ways, I just never explored any others), though still I don't like to take chances wearing tops that don't come down low enough to cover my crotch area, especially for the past couple years as that thing has a mind of its own and every once in a while tries to fight its way out front. I don't know about not being able to touch it while peeing in public restrooms, I try not to, but also don't want to piss all over myself either, but I cover myself well enough. Peeing isn't a problem, I just take the very last stall, even if I can't, I sit and pull my pants down in such a way that no one would see anything sticking out unless they were directly peeking in, and even then I also have all that hair of mine also helping to block their view by keeping my head down enough to let my hair dangle in front of me as if I were just checking out the toilet seat before sitting on it, and crossing my arms in front of me helps create even more of a barrier. Colder weather times are easier, lots more clothing to carry around, which includes a coat which I can hang up or poise in front of me.

[JungianZoe]

I have some of the same issues... thankfully HRT shrunk the boulders a bit, but despite my best efforts, I've still got like an 1 1/2" bulge out front that can't be hidden.  Like Megan, I always wear something that covers my front.

However, I can't wear more than two pairs of anything compressive because of severe digestion issues related to stomach surgery I had four years ago.  By mid-afternoon, I already bloat to 3 pant sizes larger than I am in the morning.  To top it off, I have RLS and too much tight clothing aggravates my symptoms something fierce.  I already spend 3/4 of every day feeling like cockroaches are crawling beneath my skin, unless I'm moving my arms and legs nearly every second.  On the upshoot, that's why I'm a good drummer: I can't stop practicing, even away from the kit. 

[Nikki 311]

Thanks girls!! 

I've been experimenting with a few things. .  some work, some don't. 

One day I'll find what works for me I guess. 

[Janet_Girl]

I have no problems with tucking, but then again I don't have the evil twins.  But SamanthaFLA has one of the best for those quick trip to the bathroom.

It takes practice. And after a while you'll get used to the fondling and no longer become aroused. It took me a couple of months to get the technique down. But now that I have it down, I can tuck (comfortably) and even get away with wearing a bikini with no bulge in just a matter of seconds. I also stay tucked 24/7, regardless of clothing choice.

For a while I was trying to do it while laying down. Big mistake. By the time you get it all situated, it gets very hard to put on the panties when your lying down. So give up on that method. The method I use I've named "Toilet Tucking", sounds gross but it works really well. I'm sure someone else came up with it before me, but since I discovered it on my own, I am going to take credit for it.

Before I start there are a couple of things to think about. Where you are tucking your testies up into is called the inguinal canal. The testes have a tendency to reascend back up into the inguinal canal when you are very cold or having intense sexual intercourse. While this may happen, it is still very rare. The inguinal canal can shrink slightly, making it harder for the testes to stay in place. After a couple of weeks of moving the testes in and out as well as keeping them in place, it can become far easier to move them in and keep them in.



6-Step "Toilet Tucking" Process

• 1: Sit on the toilet like you normally would to take care of business. Keep your panties just above your knee, and let the "parts" dangle as they may.
• 2: Put your legs firmly together. The "parts" should be squished between your legs. And very little should be visible at this point.
• 3: Stand up. By this point the "parts" should be pretty much tucked between your legs, except with the 2 rocks have not yet reascended into the inguinal canal.
• 4: To get them to reascend, simply wiggle around a little bit and try to push them up with your legs (or thighs). This might hurt the first couple of times, but once you get the technique down, it doesn't hurt anymore.
• 5: After that, pull up the underwear to lock it all in place.
• 6: To allow it to remain comfortable for hours, reach around back (over your butt), and pull the scrotal skin back over your butt (no joke). Perhaps squat a little bit to get a more thorough "pull-through" of the scrotal skin. It's a weird sensation, but you get used to it.

If you don't pull the skin back it may get caught in the underwear, between the underwear and the legs and start to pinch; after a while it can cause some fairly excruciating pain. I wear fairly tight underwear that is designed for a woman exactly my size, so given that I have those annoying extra parts, they are quite tight. You need them a little tight like that to keep it all secure. And if you tuck properly you will absolutely remain comfortable.

Another tip is to not lean on anything from the front. For instance, when I cook dinner, I have a tendency to lean against the counter from my front. And since my "boys" are right there, I end up smashing them in, and it hurts like holy hell. After a while you don't do it anymore and you don't think about it; but if you do start to tuck more frequently keep that in mind.

I've tried all different types of underwear and here is my experience with the different styles as far as Comfort and Function.


Do use:

• Bikini Style

            These are great all around. They hold everything in place, and remain comfortable.

• High Cut Style

            Another fantastic style. Hold everything in place, and because it rides up higher it may help hold the underwear up. The extra pressures from below encourages the underwear to slip down slightly.

• Stretch Cotton

            Make sure you buy any of the above style in stretch cotton, because it holds tight. While in standard cotton the threads tend to stretch and it loses it's ability to hold.



Don't Use:

• Boy Shorts

            While comfortable at first, I found that my parts tend to jiggle out of the sides of the underwear very frequently. I love boy shorts, but I recommend against using them.

• Hipster (Maybe)

            This style may or may not work. They are sort of low, and they may slide down a bit to easy. I don't encourage many people to use these.

• Thongs

            I don't think this really needs explaining. Plus they are just kind of uncomfortable anyway.

• Plain Cotton

            Like I mentioned above. Standard cotton underwear stretches to much, and ends up losing the ability to hold everything secure.


I don't buy underwear in packs. Like if you go to walmart or target and you can buy a 5 pack of hanes underwear. In just a matter of minutes they will stretch and lose the ability to hold everything in place and they'll stay that way until you wash them where they shrink back down. The stuff I buy is a little bit more expensive and off the rack (usually hanging up in packs of 3). They are still cotton, but more stretchy (like spandex) and hold things far better.

Don't use the "boy shorts" style of panties. In all of my experience, my bits tend to slip out. I really love boy shorts, the way the look and their comfort, but they just don't function. I have tried a butt load of different types too.

Surprisingly, I don't buy or have ever tried a gaff. I thought about it, but I don't feel the need to use one. Thankfully, I was not "endowed" with anything special; and I've gotten my technique down to such a degree that I don't think I'll ever need one.

If you have any questions regarding my method, let me know. I'll be happy to answer.

[Liza77]

I use the gaft and you can get  it online here http://www.patriciafield.com/secretladygaff.aspx or at the patricia field store in NYC is one size fitls all if any material remains then you just stup the extra elastic ,I tuck with that then put on my regular underwear and, I even wear skinny  tight jeans and leggings without worry, I stay tucked the entire day till is time for bed, trust me that would be one of the best investment that you can do before SRS, at first is a little uncomfortable but you'll get used to it...hope that helps!