Huh. I've never seen Maury's show, and I'm kind of sickly interested now, like how people can't look away from carwrecks. It sounds really stupid and disrespectful, though.
As for Dr. Phil, I haven't seen that episode. Mostly because the second I hear the guy's voice/see his show go on I dive for the TV to change the channel. Not only is he irritating, he is dumb. I heard he had an episode where he said masturbation was the same exact thing as cheating on one's lover. Which. What the crap. So, I put no stock into his mouthwords. -_-; But calling a transman "she" sounds like the perfect way to have your mustache forcibly ripped from your face.