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Started by togetherwecan, February 05, 2007, 01:27:37 PM

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togetherwecan

Any SO's here that believe their lives and the things that have happened in them were all geared to where you are now?

I had an "uncle" who became my "aunt" when I was a kid. My favorite aunt at that. She is no longer living for other reasons however HRT and SRS are something that I was already introduced to because of her so it isn't this big scarey thing to me.

My 2nd husband was a fetishist and minor cross dresser. There are times i still wonder if he may be transsexual, he loved everything about women but didn't love women, just what they could do to animate his fetishes etc. so I really don't know but I wonder. We lived a completely sexless marriage for more than 7 yrs. He was definitely not gay. He just couldn't have intercourse. It wasn't sex to him. Masturbation with fetish objects or watching me with fetish objects was his thing. He did like to wear my shoes.

Anyhow, I divorced 8 mo ago...Brooke semi-came out 8 mo ago...I moved from one state to another 8 mo ago...for the past 8 mo Brooke has been wanting to "runaway" to the state I am now in. This is all stuff neither of us knew about eachother at the time although we had known eachother online for years. I have only known about "Brooke" for a few days now.

There are many other things in my background that seem to have set me up for this, prepared me in a sense. Just wondering if anyone else here has had similar circumstances.
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angelsgirl

Sorry, no.  The circumstances of my current relationship just kind of came out of left field.  Sometimes, I'm still surprised at myself for getting into this one considering some of the crap I knew I'd be taking from my mom!
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Berri

I can say that I do not think my life was geared for this new relationship as I had never thought that I would be with a female. I never had any thoughts or even wanted to be with the same sex as I until I met Nikki. She is a wonderful person. I am not sorry that I met her and my life would not be the same without her. I can not imagine my life without her now. But no I never thought that things would ever be this way with me.
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togetherwecan

Quote from: Berri on February 10, 2007, 02:21:48 PM
I can say that I do not think my life was geared for this new relationship as I had never thought that I would be with a female. I never had any thoughts or even wanted to be with the same sex as I until I met Nikki. She is a wonderful person. I am not sorry that I met her and my life would not be the same without her. I can not imagine my life without her now. But no I never thought that things would ever be this way with me.

I never thought things would be this way for me either...what I mean is when looking back have any of the SO's pieced together experiences in their lives that have made them more open & acceptable? Have things in your life opened doors that led you to understanding?
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Berri

Yes than in that degree there has been. My sister ( not blood but her family adopted me) is and always has been a lesbian. We was raised to have open minds. The same as I am doing with my two children. To me the way I was raised helped allot. When Nikki came out to me it shocked me, confused me and I had allot to learn, but I never once thought of leaving her. The way I was raised and being around my sister and her partner helped me have an open mind.
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