A Girl like You?

[Wild Flower]

I met this girl, who had the same personality as me (a bit), but she was living the life that I wanted to live. Well her life is more tragic than mine, but she dropped out of high school, has a DUI, suspended license (so that's not me at all). But the way she operates is like me, so she came to my house, and she had her boyfriend with her. She is living with her boyfriend right now, since she had no home, and she doesn't work. But I know deep down she is using him, since she flirted with all the men in the room. The boyfriend is pretty unattractive for her too, but he buys her things and lives rent-free... and he's close to her age.

So, I was thinking, "Oh she uses men just like I do! I now have a guy in my state who will let me live with him (and tons more but let's not go into that)" Then she asked me about the porno business, since I know a bit about it, and she seemed very interested in it, by saying, "They make a lot of MONEY!".

I think if I was a girl, this would be who I was suppose to be. A blonde pretty girl, and she seemed so happy. I just felt envy because she had the beauty.... Well I guess I shouldn't feel too bad, I am doing the same thing as a guy right now lol, and I don't have a messed up record, and I have my high school degree.

Have anyone met a girl who you really think would be your life???

But she's way prettier than I ever could be... I think at least.  She's skinny, long bleached-up blonde, tanned, and green eyes, and big eyes. She wears short shorts too, and 4 inch heels. She's just living the life.

[~RoadToTrista~]

She sounds like a slut.

[Wild Flower]

She sounds like a slut.

She's a very sweet girl, I like her a lot, and she's nice to me....
and to be honest the only girl who actually likes me (but she sees me as a guy so I don't know lol?)

But I think that's just her personality, she has a Marilyn-Monroe type thing going on with her, and I don't think she's doing it to be nasty.

[Cindy]

Maybe we should not jump to conclusions. People survive by coping in a way that they can keep going with.

Tolerance is a difficult thing.

Cindy

[Amazon D]

Thats the life you wanna live? Or are you referring to her appearance only? She sounds like the type of "friend" who will forget about you once they find someone else to leech off.

Hey whats wrong with being a self centered superficial person who uses other people to get everything you want? I mean these people get to enjoy short spurts of fun until the money runs out or they get old or fat and then they hate themselves and hide out amongst the gutter snipes. There is nothiong wrong if a person chooses that lifestyle. 

However, i live amongst the amish and mennonites and honest farmers where we never have to worry about someone stealing from us or using us and actually people will help you if they see you need help. 

We all have a choice in life as Cindy says 

[kate durcal]

I met this girl, who had the same personality as me (a bit), but she was living the life that I wanted to live. Well her life is more tragic than mine, but she dropped out of high school, has a DUI, suspended license (so that's not me at all).

Then she asked me about the porno business, since I know a bit about it, and she seemed very interested in it, by saying, "They make a lot of MONEY!".

Have anyone met a girl who you really think would be your life???

I have met many girls like her and you. The kind of Ladies I look up as role model and admire are quiet the opposite. The ladies I admire are honest, independent, self reliant, educated, courageous, tolerant; they care for others, they mentor young people, etc. You will find a lot of Ladies like that in this forum. We are currently paying homage to one of them, Cindy James.

Kate D

[tekla]

She is living with her boyfriend right now, since she had no home, and she doesn't work. But I know deep down she is using him

I don't even have to go 'deep down', it's pretty clear right on the surface there.


And having a 'messed up' record is par for the course in porno.

self centered superficial person who uses other people to get everything you want
Not exactly a rare character in California, in show biz, in any biz and so what's wrong with that?  They do tend to be pretty honest about being - hell they make a display and show of being - self centered and superficial people.  It's not like you can't see them coming.