Quote from: Robbyv213 on May 23, 2024, 04:54:41 PMI know I feel this way more and more. Even more so when I see my wife naked. I always tell her she has an amazing body, and I'm glad that she gives it to me and lets me enjoy it (sexually and non sexually) but deep down I wish it was my body. That I had as feminine of a body as she does. She thinks I'm just complementing her and I am but there's more to it than that on my end.
Since I am a very masculine guy, and have very masculine frame ( that my wife has said that most men would spend their lives to achieve) I know I will never be that feminine, I will never have that small slender feminine look with curves in all the right places. For a guys body I'm good, but I guess I just made the best with the cards I've been delt since I felt there's nothing I can do about it. So I'm sure as most of us have at some point or another tried to ignore or repress everything by being as masculine or macho of a man as we can be, but it never works.
I feel the most envious when I see an attractive athletic woman at the gym. I feel I'll never be small and slender but there's a chance I could look like a female athlete or bodybuilder. So when I see a female like that, that's when it really hits me since I'm still here in a man's body and having to go as fast and my wife can handle any sort of transition.
I believe there is a lot one can do when one puts her mind to it. Perhaps you can think all the feminine thoughts you can, gradually present as female, and get gender therapy as needed. Do remember that everyone is different, with different circumstances. There are no specific mandatory timelines.
Slender, short, shapely, and beautiful is the ideal look of many but many do not meet that are quite feminine women.
Best to you,
Chrissy
