I've been going to lesbian meetups for about a year and a half. I'm not unattractive, dress well (though not on fashions cutting edge), have a decent body, though a somewhat masculine face. Yes, I'm a bit socially awkward, but I'm smart, funny when you get to know me, and easy to talk to. There really is no reason why I should be a social pariah. I easily fall within the age group of the women that go to these things. Because I'm 5'11" and a bit gawky, I imagine those with activated transdar clock me, so I can't rule out that as a problem.
I have had NO INTEREST at all from anyone. People are mostly friendly, kind, and engage socially when I approach them, but no one seems the slightest bit interested in me as more than a casual social encounter.
Have other people had similar experiences, or is it just me?