I was checking out at the store and the cashier said "thank you mam"

I was at the Y and changing naked with an 80 yr old woman. We were both naked and she asked me if I would like to join her TT club. What to F is TT club I asked her. she replied "my tiny titty club". Of course I said yes and then the unexpected happened. She came over, gave me a hug, by the way we are both naked, and planted a kiss on my nipple. "You are a member of my TT club". A true encounter. 80 yr women are not afraid of anything and they rock.

Lori Dee

Yes you answered most of my questions on the other post. It is greatly appreciated. I cant thank you enough for your input and wealth of knowledge.

Lori Dee

Thank you so much. That is a lot of information, but it is very helpful. I appreciate it very much. I'm sure it's not hard to get lost in the system.

Hi Everyone

Transitioning or DeTransitioning if one ever considers it.  Is up to that person and only that person.  The number of people detransitioning, without quoting numbers is very small.

So is it wise for those who want to detransition? Yes, and for those who want to transition (no I did not transition) is it wise? Yes.

In my early days on Susan's for the first time, I made the following post and you can click on the following link First Mention to see that post.

Quote from: Sarah B on August 26, 2010, 06:00:28 AMOver my dead body would I ever detransition.  However, thinking about being a male, thinking about what I once had, makes me feel sick to the core and I would rather die than become a man.

Recently in another similar thread I made the following statement:

Quote from: Sarah B on January 24, 2024, 10:02:00 PM. . . .

OK to be brutally honest there were two instances where I paused and considered what I was doing with my life, one was the consideration of de-transitioning. However, that was never going to fly in the face of it.  Why? I was standing in the middle of George Street, Sydney and I was thinking about others, that were considering reversing what they were doing and I thought what I had to do to achieve this, breast removal was one of the thoughts racing through my mind at the time. 

However, thinking about this, 30 seconds at most or a very short period of time, a sickening feeling came over me and I immediately and emphatically said no to myself about this.   There was no chance in hell, I was ever going back to the way that I lived and to this day thinking about how I lived makes me sick to the stomach, in other words it makes me very nauseous.

The other time where I considered the ramifications of what I was doing and possibly could of ended up not going ahead with the surgery, was on the day of my surgery. My friend at the time was driving my car and we arrived at the hospital and I sat there thinking about what lay ahead and realized that if I went ahead there was no turning back, but I only dwelt on these thoughts only for about a minute or so.

Actually my mind was basically blank at the time.  I already knew with out fear, what I was going to do, I did not know what the future was going to hold for me, not that I thought about that at the time, so I got out of the car and walked into the hospital and as they say, the rest is history. . . . .

You can click on the following link Second Mention to see that post.

As an aside.  Did I need 'therapy'?  No, although I had to do 'therapy' to get my letters. I had no gender or body dysphoria. Not that these two issues were ever discussed in my 'therapy' sessions.  I had no problems whatsoever.

I was living my life as a female, had my head screwed on correctly and that if I made a wrong decision then I was totally responsible for my actions.  That is what my psychiatrists saw and why I believe that I got my surgery letters.

Finally as I always have said, "I have never regretted what I have done" and "I will always be eternally grateful for my surgeon" and the part where he states in a letter; "that the surgery is irreversible".  I always say, "Thank god for that."

Take care and all the best for the future.

Love and Hugs
Sarah B
Official Greeter

Started out as sunny so I got girly and went out shopping and it was warm enough to wear a sun dress with a sweater. First time this year. It was wonderful. Then I packed up my swim gear and went to YWCA for a swim class. The women all like me, what a fun day. At the YWCA in MN it is legal to change fully naked.

I am 73 yr old tfem on hrt and love it. B boobs, non op, impotent. In Minnesota it is legal for me to go to the YWCA and change with women totally nude. we all love it. If anyone has a question please ask me. Thanks DD

Quote from: Oldandcreaky on Today at 08:18:03 PMI'm sorry to read this, Chrissy. Do you mind sharing what happened?

Nothing tragic.  Just some "knowing smirks" and quiet giggles by a clerk.  I believe this was a spontaneous reaction.  No harm I suppose.  This was rather mild on the scale of "not making my day."

May your day be very nice tomorrow!

Chrissy

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on Today at 08:09:48 PMNot a couple hours earlier at a cosmetics store.  So be it.

I'm sorry to read this, Chrissy. Do you mind sharing what happened?

Not a couple hours earlier at a cosmetics store.  So be it.