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Cooking / Re: What are your favorite veg...
Last post by Dani - Today at 06:35:12 AM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on July 18, 2024, 07:04:12 PMIs there a poisonous part of rhubarb plant for humans?  I thought there is...

The leaves contain a certain amount of oxalic acid that can cause stomach irritation. The red parts of the stalks are perfectly fine to eat.
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Member Blogs / Re: Allie's Blog IV: Revenge o...
Last post by imallie - Today at 05:51:26 AM
Quote from: davina61 on Today at 03:37:46 AMMade my street food Thai rice/chicken/tempura with sweet and sour sauce look like road kill!! 

😂 I'm sure it was delicious! And btw it does the same to every thing I've ever made so don't feel bad! 😘
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Member Blogs / Re: Allie's Blog IV: Revenge o...
Last post by Oldandcreaky - Today at 05:25:06 AM
Davina, English cuisine is greatly underrated. I've had some amazing meals there. You can't go wrong with freshly made, locally sourced tomato soup from pubs. I never had a bad bowl there. However, the traditional English breakfast is way too much food for me.

More amazing food, Allie. Far above my pay grade, but I can gaze and sigh. Imagine me as the street urchin with her dirty face and fingers pressed against the front window of the restaurants.
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Hi Anonymous

Nice to see to you again, I hope things are going well for you.  You mentioned in your post "A question regarding transition";

Quote from: anonymous24 on Yesterday at 08:43:12 PMI would like to ask - Before your transition, how much time of your day you spent thinking about transition? i mean, 10% of your time? 20%? 80%? how much time that was part of your thoughts

I thought about it in light of my past and seriously even I cannot quantify the amount of time that I spent thinking about my situation.  If I did it would have to go like this 8 hours sleep, 6 hours swimming, 8 hours of work.  Which only left 2 hours left.  Which is approximately 10% of the day left to do any normal thinking.

Weekends you could forget, it was either competition swimming or some other activity.  Which at this point it becomes pointless to keep tabs on how much time I would have spent on longing or wanting to be female.

The last two years before I changed my life around, the thoughts did increase, but they never interfered in my life.  I never worried about them, they were a part of me.  When I did think about it or do something, buy clothes or get dressed, the amount of time was very short.  Why did it not bother me?

In hindsight now it's obvious that I was a female and I was just doing things that I liked, regardless of my situation.  So I never thought about 'transition',  but then again the word 'transition' was not around in my time.  So how could I?  Other members will of course have different answers to your question.

Which brings me to your post.  How much time are you thinking about it and exactly what are you thinking about, during those times?

Which leads to me to the following questions, have you spoken to any therapist about your situation?  What are you doing about these thoughts and what can you do about them.  You have been having these thoughts since you were 16 and you need the peace of mind that you so richly deserve in regards to your issues.

Once last thought for you, I never thought about longing or wanting to be a female, ever again when I changed my life around, why?  I was living my life as a female.

Take care and all the best and please let us know how you are going.

Love and Hugs
Sarah B
Official Greeter
@anonymous24
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Member Blogs / Re: Allie's Blog IV: Revenge o...
Last post by davina61 - Today at 03:37:46 AM
Made my street food Thai rice/chicken/tempura with sweet and sour sauce look like road kill!! 
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Fun and Games / Re: Two Word Association Game ...
Last post by davina61 - Today at 03:30:53 AM
lost   found
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Fun and Games / Re: Single Word Association Ga...
Last post by davina61 - Today at 03:29:51 AM
dolly
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Birthdays / July 22, 2024 - Members - Birt...
Last post by Northern Star Girl - Yesterday at 11:57:41 PM
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Dear Members:
Everyone here on the Forum are wishing you a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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I hope that your birthday includes CAKE
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Please be certain to look at your profile on your Birthday and find a special gift.

Warm wishes to you on your Special Day and your Birthday...
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Fun and Games / Re: Single Word Association Ga...
Last post by Northern Star Girl - Yesterday at 11:50:38 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on Yesterday at 05:52:47 AMSpindle

            mandrel
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Fun and Games / Re: Two Word Association Game ...
Last post by Northern Star Girl - Yesterday at 11:48:04 PM

Acceptance    Rejection