Quote from: Lunaria on Yesterday at 12:30:28 PMI am quite nervous and scared about talking to a therapist and getting on HRT and medical intervention in order to transition but at the same time if my therapist declares that i should then it will be liberating and confirm what i always suspected of myself. Its an exciting thing to think about and a huge change in my life that will be beneficial and help me in the end i think, to be able to live physically as the woman i always been inside. I thought about online sources but a doctor's supervision and care is much safer.
Your therapist should never tell you what to do. They will ask questions and ask you what YOU want to do. The decision is yours, as many transgender people choose to do nothing. The therapist's function is to determine if you have other issues going on that may seem like gender dysphoria. Once they diagnose that it is gender dysphoria, then any medical transition that you want to do becomes "medically necessary". Under the current regime, many insurance companies have stopped covering gender affirming care, but a clever doctor can diagnose a medical condition that has nothing to do with gender affirming care, so they may bypass insurance coverage hurdles.
For example, the VA stopped covering hair removal because it is considered "cosmetic". My diagnosis of gender dysphoria then made hair removal "medically necessary". Then the VA stopped most gender affirming care, so my doctor diagnosed me with hirsutism (excessive facial hair in women). Since I just moved to Colorado this week, I have not had a chance yet to follow up with a new doctor to see if the VA will cover hair removal for hirsutism. Likewise, my hormones say on the prescription label "For Hormone Replacement," which is valid for males, females, or transgender.
The other function of a therapist is someone who can help you understand what you are going through. It is embarrassing to talk about sensitive subjects like this with a stranger. As a retired hypnotherapist, I can assure you that your therapist has heard it all before, so you are not going to shock them. They are trained professionals and work in that field because they enjoy helping people with problems, and you will encounter problems. It is nice to have someone to talk to about anything, who will understand, and can give you another perspective on things. We can get very caught up in our own thoughts and feelings until we have tunnel vision and cannot see things any other way.
I think you have made some good decisions about the best way to proceed to effect the best outcome for you. We all wish you the very best. Feel free to come back here and let us know how things are going, to just vent, or ask for advice. We are here to help.
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