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#1
Member Blogs / Re: The Story of Lori
Last post by ChrissyRyan - Today at 09:16:20 PM
I wish I had a sweet sounding, all female voice, all the time.

Chrissy
#2
Birthdays / Members - April 28, 2024 - Bir...
Last post by Northern Star Girl - Today at 09:13:38 PM
@Rileyyy  @GQjoey  @Christinaaaa  @TheDelBel

Dear Members:
  4 members Birthdays to recognize on April 28, 2024
    Wishing each of you a very Happy Birthday
          :icon_flower:  :icon_birthday:  :icon_birthday:  :icon_birthday:  :icon_flower:

What are your plans for your Birthday? 
        Dinner out with friends and family?
            Cake?  Candles?  Special trip?


On your Birthday, check your profile for a special gift...

    Again, wishing you well and enjoy your special day.
Warm Regards,
Danielle
[Northern Star Girl]
                     

#3
Gender Correction Surgery / Re: Hernia surgery after GRS
Last post by Sarah B - Today at 08:09:43 PM
Hello Valkyrie_lux

My name is Sarah B and I would also like to formally, Welcome you to Susan's Place!

I see that Danielle and Lori have already greeted you and they come with sound advice.  They have already said; that you need to continue to seek expert medical advice in regards to your 'inguinal  hernia'.  I would also in regards to this particular situation would advise the same.

You said;

Quote from: Valkyrie_lux on Today at 12:39:57 PMHey y'all.

I am having a mild medical issue and I'm wondering if anyone here has experience with this. I know this might not belong exactly here but I'm not really sure where to ask people about this. I'm a little panicked about it all.

Yesterday my GP diagnosed me with an inguinal hernia. It's not severe but it's uncomfortable and will require surgery to fix. The fact that I am post-op came up as a concern. I guess the concern is if it gets worse, I don't have a scrotal sac for the hernia to spread into. It's not at that point but I have no idea how long it's going to take to schedule surgery. I know a lot of people go for years not even knowing they have a hernia like this.

First, if this post is in the wrong place.  Then Danielle or other moderators will move it to a more appropriate place.

Yes, you are having a medical issue and it's a concern for you, your GP is already sorting out your problem.  In the best way that they can.  All I can say at this moment is too take a deep breath and relax, panicking will not solve the issue.  The problem will eventually sort itself out in time.  How do I know this?

I like you, I'm post op of 33 years, I currently have a medical condition called BPH.  In other words I have problems going to wee.  This has been going on for sometime and at the moment I have had the condition diagnosed, by my gynaecologist.  Who I told explicitly that I was post op with my surgery letter.

I never tell 'doctors' about my 'medical condition' unless I really have to.  In other words I do not want other 'doctors or surgeons' poking around and knowing about my 'medical condition'.  I will be speaking with my GP and will be talking about what my options are going to be.

Quote from: Valkyrie_lux on Today at 12:39:57 PMDoes anyone have any experience with this while post-op? My surgery was over a decade ago but I'm still worried about another surgeon poking around in the area. Having the soreness from this is driving up dysphoria and it's a lot of stress.

While I do not have this particular medical condition that you have 'inguinal hernia', there maybe other members here on Susan's Place that might have had or still have the medical condition that you have and if they read your post they will come along and if they are willing to share their story, then you will benefit immensely from those stories.

I don't have dysphoria about my condition per se, but I don't want the vestiges that reminds me of my past life.  I want it removed, but it will take time.  So I will take things steadily.

Quote from: Valkyrie_lux on Today at 12:39:57 PMOn top of that, I have FFS scheduled in 3 and a half weeks and I'm scared this could delay it. My GP is making some phone calls but I'm not going to hear anything for a few days yet. If anyone has any advice, experiences, or suggestions, I'd love to hear them.

Only your GP can advise you on what path you need to take in regards to this particular situation.

Once you feel comfortable here, it would be appreciated if you add a little bit more about yourself and your past, in the Introduction Forums.  I would appreciate it very much if you do so, as I'm always interested in learning something new,

In addition members of Susan's will more than likely will discuss problems or issues that are similar to yours as most of us have experienced these as well.

Take care and please let us know what happens.

Once again, Welcome to Susan's Place!
Sarah B
Official Greeter
@LoriDee
@Northern Star Girl
@Valkyrie_lux
#4
Member Blogs / Re: Jessica's Rose Garden
Last post by Courtney G - Today at 07:47:38 PM
My (ex) father-in-law suffered dementia, which was caused by Alzheimer's. In his case, we just kept visiting him, making sure he had what he needed and because we were able to, we took him to familiar places from his childhood, which pleased him. Regardless of your dad's prognosis, he's very fortunate to have family around to look after him.
#5
Member Blogs / Re: Danielle's Continuing Life...
Last post by Sarah B - Today at 06:58:05 PM
Hi Everyone

I'm sorry but, Danielle's lunch is better looking and healthier.  Tooth Fairy's onion rings, just look to big to be such, they look more like Calamari (yummy).

Next time they should invite us as well.

Have a nice weekend everyone, well whats left of it.

Love and Hugs
Sarah B
Official Greeter
#6
  nee       nay       

    spelled differently but both words are pronounced the same      ˈnā 
 https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/nee?pronunciation&lang=en_us&dir=n&file=nee00001
#7
The reason behind this is because... as everyone knows... transgender Russian poets have an unfair advantage over cis-gender Russian poets.  ???
#8
Russian poetry competition bans transgender applicants

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/world/russian-poetry-competition-bans-transgender-applicants/ar-AA1nM7it?ocid=windirect&cvid=a9e4dfdb0832403a9238f9fc4551be3b&ei=49

Story by John Russell (26 April 2024)

The organizers of a Russian poetry competition have banned entries from transgender people.

Rules posted online for this year's Andrei Dementyev All-Russian Poetry Prize specify that while the competition will accept entries from poets "regardless of citizenship, nationality, profession, and place of residence," entries from "citizens who have changed their gender" will not be considered, Reuters reported.

Organized by the regional government of Tver, a city northwest of Moscow, the competition is named for the late prize-winning Russian poet Andrey Dementyev, who died in 2018. Previous competitions have not explicitly banned trans people from submitting their work, according to Russian independent news outlet Mediazona.

However, The Advocate reported that the competition's official application currently includes a question asking if the applicant has "changed" their gender.

The competition's official rules state that trans people are banned "in order to preserve traditional Russian society and religious ideas shared by multiple denominations about marriage, family, motherhood, fatherhood, and childhood."

Nef Cellarius, program coordinator for Russian LGBTQ+ rights group Vykhod ("Coming Out"), said that the rule change is likely an effort on the part of local officials to show their loyalty to the anti-LGBTQ+ Russian president.
#9
Member Blogs / Re: Danielle's Continuing Life...
Last post by BlueJaye - Today at 05:58:25 PM
I think your Tooth Fairy has good taste in food. That looked pretty appetizing.
#10
Quote from: Mariah on Today at 11:38:48 AMNot sure Texas cares about federal funding. So many Texans want Texas to leave the United States. Hugs
Mariah

Please, please, please let that happen. So many companies, including my own employer, moved their US headquarters to Texas in recent years because of the tax advantages and such. I would LOVE to see all the companies who followed that trend suddenly have their US headquarters no longer be in the United States.