Quote from: Moonflower on May 10, 2024, 07:08:30 AMYes! Yay Norah!
I hope we can help. What comes to mind is suggesting that you spend a few minutes each day imagining how your wife might respond. Start with the scariest stuff, then replace that with what you really want. Dwell on what you really want, to increase the chances of getting what you want.
I wrote previously,
More recently, I realized that my post-mastectomy treatment decisions -- as a result of cancer -- were as gender affirming as transgender treatment. You are valid!